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A 40 yr old mother of 2 boys has never been married or dated anyone since she had her kids. The boys are a result from artificial insemination and are now 5 and 3 years old. Needless to say, they’ve never had a father figure in their life.

She went to a car dealership and bought a new car. I guess she hit it off when the salesman because they ended up getting each other’s numbers. Within the first week of dating, her boys had met him not only as a salesman but their mother’s boyfriend. He came over to her house several nights during the week week for dinner and spent the night often. He also had a daughter of about 12 who he never allowed her or her sons to meet. The relationship is now over after only 3 months of being together.

Should she have allowed him to meet her kids so early on? Would it affect them more considering the lack of ever having a father figure? If so, how? Are they too young to understand what’s going on?

Please drop an opinion to explain your choices :)

My sister's friend has been back to her country with her parents since 2012. The reasons are unknown.

Base on the story, the boyfriend had issues with the mother. The lady treated him horrible. Then they went back to their country. The guy called and she issued him a long fake apology over the phone and has faked a friendship with him for 7-8 years as a way to urge him to bring gifts and come and fix their papers, to get him to marry her daughter (throught marriage visa) since he's a permanent resident.

The guy had another thing in mind and that was to come and stay in her country instead once he becomes a US citizen. That's when the mother kept insisting that they get married in the US. He already knew she was being a fake, manipulative person but that confirmed it all. Only recently in Sept of 2020, bad things happened to her and suddenly she's sorry for everything and finally wants nothing but their happiness. Too late though... the guy doesn't want her friendship at all. If you had to grade this, how cruel is using people as a ticket to get you or someone else a Green Card?