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This is a safe space, but if you’d like to comment anonymously, be my guest.

I’ll explain a bit, what I mean by safe space. I mean respectfully express your opinion on body positivity. Not to just protect my sensitive ass self, but to protect others that may be reading this. Also because calling someone a fat pig or telling someone to eat a sandwich is flat out rude, and not necessary!

My opinion?

I am a fat girl, luckily I’ve been lucky enough to never get called fat to my face, mostly because I’m so shy and reserved in school most people think the only thing that’ll happen is I’ll tell the school, and they’ll get in trouble for being a mean asshat. But, in fact they are only partially right! Just because I’m shy doesn’t mean I won’t protect my feelings if you say rude things to my face. But.. if you say it behind my back, or when you think I didn’t hear that, I just won’t give you the time of day. But.. that’s besides the point.. a idiot in my gym class last school year said I was 300lbs, just so you know I’ve never weighed over 256, I weighed 256 that day, it was June my sophomore year.. I was hurt, I didn’t cry over it.
this person was the person to act like he’s nice to the shy kids, but then spread rumours and be a asshole when he thinks they aren’t looking or hearing. Anyways... I need to get to my opinion already!
I love body positivity, to a extent.. I do not believe being overweight at all is healthy, HEALTHY! I don’t think overweight or obese people are ugly, they aren’t! We aren’t! But.. I hate how people assume that because beauty standards are changing it’s ok to weigh what I did in June this year.. unless your 6’4’, it’s not!
Also, if you wanna know, I weight about 227 now, I know some people that aren’t my size don’t see that as a big achievement.. I do.. although mine wasn’t due to working out, I just kinda stopped eating as much (I say that in moderation)

Anyways, I just wanna see some opinions! Like do you agree with me?

Girl number 1:
I am average height, with straight blonde hair and grey eyes. I have soft, pale skin, and don’t wear much makeup. My body type is slim with an average butt and small busy. I dress girly/preppy. I know what I want and describe myself as high maintanence. I am a perfectionist and get stressed easily. I love animals and nature. I am book smart but not the most logical. I love to sing and dance Although I am 18, I still love fairytales and and Disney movies though only people close to me know that.

Girl number 2:
I am a slightly above average height, with straight light brown hair, and green eyes. I wear natural makeup but definitely don’t overdue it. My body type is slim, with and average butt and average bust. I dress sophisticated/feminine. I am going into university to get a business degree so I can become a ceo/manager. I work hard and like to succeed. I love to run and travel and laugh with friends. I love listening to music as well. I am more laid back but am still sensitive. I am logical and good at reading people.

So today sex for the first time with him was good but I happened to stare at him like for a while to embrace his smile but he felt awkward and started laughing. I asked him why and he said he doesn't know and he said later on that he may have said things that I should not stress on and that I should filter his few words coz are crap. I was like same here. He later on said girls are bimbo coz they are too emotional. Then I defended saying how can you say that and I don't think I was so emotional. He said not you but mostly girls are. I said him I feel sensitive and that he didn't mean that I was bimbo and he said nah he just said it generally. This makes me uncomfortable. I don't know if I should overthink on this or just don't give a dam and chill and do my work as usual and be happy and not get affected by what any xyz has to say.