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So in the beginning I was trying to get over someone and wasn't sure if i was ready for a relationship. I told the guy and he said we can be friends. We sexted a few times before we met. Long story short we went on a date, he would stare me in the eyes and not break eye contact which I thought was weird.. On our third date he did that as well and then would tell me he can't control himself.. that same date he told me he loved me. He told me he loved me everyday and i felt pressured to say it back because I was trying to figure out my feelings. He reassured me that he wants to be apart of my mess and wants to make it work between us.

His family were very eager for our relationship, they got me a key to their house, wanted me to wear comfy clothes, talked about how they would have a small space for my clothes one day etc. Then on my birthday we had sex and i lost my virginity to him. We did other things prior to that. In the beginning he put effort into the relationship, got me a care package, we both met each others families. We video called most of the time. It felt like I was pulling teeth with him. Granted he worked a lot and had to help his family. There would be times where he didn't work and he didn't come see me. There seemed to be a lot of secrets with his job and his mom. He ended up breaking up with me because he wasn't willing to compromise over something small

Did anyone else feel their heart sink when that girl was on tv telling how her brother took her to Jordan to marry her cousin whom she never met at all? Was interrogated and examined for virginity by her father? (Thank god she had it intact)

Don't it seem that these examples keep coming up again and again? Am I alone in thinking that we oughta do something?

Now luckily the girl was smart enough to escape and run to the embassy in Damascus and then she could go home without her cousin as husband but only after suffering for years in a primitive society and starve during ramadahn and other silly stuff like wearing hidjabs on her beautiful head

I seriously think we should do something to prevent this from happening. I don't understand why airport officials don't hear huge warning bells in their ears when a brother shows up with a 17 year old and want to go to a primitive islamist place for a while? Should they be made aware? Should we make a rule if you go to ie Damascus u can't gain reentry in the normal countries again? Or is it just me?

Anyway thank god for the embassy and the woman who helped her escape back home but even today she cries and lives in hiding and with new name and stuff so still horrible

We've been dating online for 6 months