Search Results: approaching women in bars

Women will not pursue a man?

My friend contends that even the most attractive, tall, confident, successful man can expect women to approach him at a bar or club. This is essentially what I do, as a rule I absolutely refuse to compete for women...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women wait for guys to make a move?

Is this actually true? I get approached semi-regularly at clubs or bars and generally date very extroverted women that like to be in an active relationship role. A female friend (lesbian) told me I should just be more...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Conversation with a player... how did I handle it? How should I stop obsessing?

My friend Bob and his player friend traveled to my country and I was their tour guide. I did not have sex with the player nor my friend and we had an awesome time. After the trip he friends me on fb and this is the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Has anyone read the book called The Game by Neil Strauss?

I have being reading this book called the game? its about how to talk strange girls/women in the bar/club. I have being reading some of it and has good pointers like. when you want to approach a girl, you will have these...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I take his advice on women seriously?

My friend is one of those guys that hits the gym a lot and is always at bars and clubs trying to get with different women. He's into the pick-up artist stuff. I asked him for some advice about how I can approach women in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can a guy with no threshold for BS date hot girls?

For example if a girl is being a drama queen I will simply ignore it. If a girl is over 5 min late I will go have fun elsewhere. I won't buy women drinks in a bar or club unless they give me a reason to. If a girl resists...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, how would you feel about being approached like this:

Let's say you are at a bar or a restaurant or any social gathering really and a guy comes over to say hello and introduces himself. No pick up line or anything. "Hey my name is ______, I just want to introduce myself....

JakeLongOT

Xper 6 Age: 43

Have you ever actually seen someone approach a girl?

I've never seen a guy approach a girl. Holy f***, I've actually never seen it happen. I did it today, a girl was sitting on her own, and I recognised her 'cos she asked me for a light once, she's got bright pink and black...

ElijahCynicism

Xper 3 Age: 34

I have known him for 16 years.. did he just admit he likes me?

I have known my best friend for 16 years... and lately when he sees me and he says something, its usually flirty or sweet. Like tonight, I asked him if he would come out with me this week to the bar, and he said yes and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this married guy unhappy?

Why does he act like this? Is he unhappy? He is not a sex addict because he doesn’t hook up with any woman; it’s the girls he knows. This guy belonged to a very rich family. He started working at 20 and eventually...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there such thing as defense barriers?

For instance, when someone is out in public or a social scene or event, when they shield themselves from talking to anyone who approaches them. I've read about these sorts of things on flirting/dating advice columns and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are some women so flaky or change so abrubtly sometimes.

This has happened to me three times with 3 different women. 1) I approached her,she was pretty friendly and also flirty and what not. However next time I saw her again, she gave me the cold shoulder and walked away with...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Marriage & Weddings

Player husband or selfish me?

This guy belonged to a very rich family.he started working at 20 and eventually started making a lot of money by the age of 22. he met this girl unexpectedly at a bar,he said it was love at first sight while the girl...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy Girls: The Complete Guide to Understanding the Quiet Ones

Many shy girls lament their lack of dating success due to their personality and its perceived shortcomings. In defense of shy girls everywhere, this article is dedicated to them and to the men who wish to date them....

TheDigitalSaint

Guru Age: 43

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Do most women approach guys in pubs/bars nowadays ?

Do most women approach guys in bars and pubs instead of letting the guy make the first move?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies have you given your number to a wonderful, down to earth, guy that approached you in public?

It shouldn't take, mutual friends, clubs, online dating, or bars just for guys to meet women. He can also approached in public like at the mall with confidence (not in a creepy way). If women lump very single man into...

womensuck

Xper 5 Age: 43

Does it always take clubs and bars to approach women?

Ladies would you love for a hot, confident, (not cocky) down to earth, normal guy approach you at places like... mmm lets say the mall or any other public place? Theirs no reason to be intimidated by a random guy walking...

womensuck

Xper 5 Age: 43