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Cheating is a lot of work that’s just not worth the risk of getting caught. It takes a lot of planning, a lot of covering up! The lies to the other woman. The lies to your partner. When does the pleasure turn to guilt? As soon as you orgasm and reach for the skies.
For a year and half we didn't engage in a physical relationship. There was flirting and fantasizing about each other sexually when we were apart. We shared intimate details and were into each other. We both reached out to each other because, well I don't know, I remember telling him I thought he would care. He listened. It felt like he cared. One of greatest pleasures was the anticipation of pleasure. We both admitted that when I stopped rejecting him and gave into the sexual tension. Sex was an intense high. Five hours later we agreed to have sex everyday. He left happy! I was happy and ready and anticipating the next session. That was the one and only time we had sex.
He called the next morning. He came by picked up my laundry and we made plans to meet at 8. I got caught up with dinner at my best friend's place. He text me at midnight. It was a clear message. I told him we would go our own way. He let me go. I saw him the next morning at the casino. I won $300. I was with our mutual friend that contacted me and asked me to go. He wouldn't even look at me.
I found out a week later that he lied to me from the beginning. He was in a relationship with the the woman he shared a child with. They did break up when we were together. Maybe they got back together the same day he left my house after we had sex. That's what I believe. It doesn't really matter though. She's pregnant and due in May with a boy!!! He failed to mention that! It's clear he was reacting on the defense for self preservation, no regard to my feelings. Truth came to light.
Was it worth it?
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I have been talking to this guy on and off for a few years and at the time I was just trying to figure myself out, i wanted a relationship but i was hesitant to meet people. A year ago I mentioned meeting up as friends and he was down.. he stood me up thinking he was there but wasn't. I told him what i felt about that. (long story) So I lead some people on which i've acknowledged and apologised for. We recently started talking and he told me he felt like i didn't care about him and put him on the back burner.

When I voice clipped him he told me all his feelings kind of came back that he was apparently suppressing his feelings about me.. We tried video calling but i couldn't find free wifi. He said it was best if he we didn't video call.. he said he's afraid of getting his heart broken again. Whenever we talked i felt like he was still mad at me or being sarcastic.. for example when i mentioned about meeting up he was like "oh yea we go way back" "I liked talking to you since the beginning" . He has told me he is sensitive and sometimes its hard to toughen up when people would tell him too. there's a few other things but that is the just of it