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Ok at my local library the front desk is run by a group of very VERY chatty women who gossip and chit chat all day (I know, not what you think a normal library is) . I've been going there for years and there was this one librarian who was always literally DISGUSTED with me. I did nothing to her, never flirted, never said more than hello, thank you when she helped me with something. Some people are just like that and I get it. I don't stink or wear dirty clothes so she simply didn't like me because I'm me. And it's not that she likes me or is playing hard to get. I legit DISGUST her. I can tell by her body language and she's also snapped at me a few times.

NOW HERE IS THE FUN PART. This new dorky girl started working there who is dorky but CUTE AS CUTE CUTE, MY GOD SHE'S CUTE. and guess what :p her and Hi are *kinda* hitting it off well. I haven't asked her out yet but there's something there. I've seen the lady I mentioned before snap at her and tell her to "listen we have visitors that need help" and "Missy talk to your friends on your own time". Then I hear from someone else that she's actually been bullying her when no one is watching.


What the hell is going on? Maybe the bitchy girl is just like that for no reason and it really has nothing to do with me or the new librarian?

I've had a crush on a girl I met while studying abroad about a year ago, and I think she liked me as well. We were kind of close, she often sat next to me in class, her body language looked like she was attracted to me. There has even been a rumor that one of us wanted to be in a relationship with the other. I really like her and I never knew if she was actually interested in me.

Should I contact her? How could I find out if she is interested in me without being awkward? How could I tell her how I feel without being awkward?

By the way, we live in the same country but we live far away from each other.

Admittedly have acted flirty around other girls when I was in a relationship. I remember one girl wanting to sleep with me but I told her no. But there was some hugging and caressing (no kissing). I felt semi guilty about it but I didn’t cross the line.

My girlfriend at the time never questioned me and trusted me 100 percent. But down the road she was pissed off at me for different reasons. I’m almost completely sure outright cheated (slept with another guy) a week or two before we broke up. I just could tell from her body language something happened. But I never got it confirmed.

But anyway is acting flirty around the opposite sex cheating when you are in a relationship cheating?