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Would it push you away if your girlfriend keeps pursuing you and wanting to talk to you about what's going on if you suddenly stopped talking to her (for whatever reason).

Is it bad that I have messaged my boyfriend about 4 times and called him once to figure out what's going on? He's never done disappeared without a legit reason before, and I'd always wait for him. But now is different. I feel like I'm losing him and I don't know what to do. I've communicated many times with no answer In return. I don't want to move on so soon, without knowing why he has become distant. If I keep trying to communicate, would that push him away instead of get him to answer me?

Also, sorry about every post of mine having pretty much the SAME topic. It's just hearing your input and opinions help a ton. So, thank you.

Met this fun guy 4 weeks ago, he added me 9 days later on facebook (and I never say yes usually but this time I did). Then he started talking, opened up about how he wanted to see me again, and all of a sudden I suggested to meet him, asked him to my place. After that there was no return for 3 days of “blizz”. All over each other... said to much, gave out all our secrets, planned things we never should have and could not get enough. I have to tell you staight up, I never open up like this... I’m on the break all the time, and have a big wall infront of me... but I broke all my rules!
On the third day evening we met, and talked... and the “we are going a bit fast, we should slow down” came up. I had of course thought it all that day... but this feeling is breaking all my standards and rules... and now I find myself forceing myself into pulling back unwillingly... and thinking.. dont call, dont say this, be cool, dont push, dont ask... situation. So!!! I know I should be cool, calm and collective and dont give a damn... he should right? I just want it to be effordless... not these rules or !!! Im lost hehheehh

I`m really confused about his behavior. I have never been good at dating as I dont understand male behavior. So guys, please share your opinion!

So, I`m dating this guy for 3 months. We are separated by 3 hour drive. Usually he came to my town for couple of days or I went to his. We chatted every day, also talked on the phone or had video calls. We have an amazing physical chemistry and also have fun all the time we are together (cooking, taking road trips, exploring cities, etc). He is very caring and affectionate and usually spoiled me rotten. I enjoy returning him the favor. :)
Last month his schedule was full with previously planned things (vacation) and we were not able to see each other. I asked him when will we and he set a weekend for us. Than he got sick. After he got well I asked him whats the plan now about seeing each other. He wanted to know when I am free, told him and he said he has to check his schedule and will let me know. Since than (2 days ago) I haven't heard from him. I am being stubborn and I am not initiating any kind of chat until he does. He is still reacting to all my social media posts and he is even adding me on new ones. But he didn't let me know when he would be able to see me.

I dont know what to do at this point, I just know I would prefer things being clear and him letting me know if he is interested or not. By the way he is behaving I would say he is not that into me (no matter what he said in previous weeks about how much he likes me).
What do you think?