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So my boyfriend got a new job and has had the last two weeks off. He has an issue with needing space and therefore every couple of days we spend a day a part. Since he had has time off he has been meeting people for lunch everyday and making plans most evenings. I have kind of just been filled in when he is done with his day. It was fine with me at first because I want him to catch up with people and have good friendships. The past Monday I got really sick from a proceedure I had gotten done and asked if he could bring me food. He told me he had some errands and was going to work out, but would let me know when he was done. Around 5:00pm he texted me saying he was going drinking with his friends that night. This really bothered me bc I felt awful and he should help take care of me or at least check on me. He went on his way and still didn't check on me that evening. The next day he let's me know he is going drinking again at a bar to watch the football game with a buddy. I also get a text shortly after that he has also made plans for the following day to have a guys night. Mind you he never goes out with me let alone really drinks with me. So all I am thinking is we have plans to go out nye and he may be burnt out by then. Sure enough he was. I got frustrated and told him it's kind of sad how little I have seen him since he has gotten all of this time off and he immediately throws in my face that I hate his friends and it's always a problem when he goes out with them. I tried to explain saying I was sick and you went out and didn't even ask how I was. So we didn't go out nye and new years we sat away from each other and didn't really hang out. So today I ask him if he will go out with my friend and I and he said no way. Even though he knows how much I hate going out without him if I'm not with a big group. Also he said he had a lot to do today and didn't know when he would be done. When I try to talk to him he gets very defensive. What are your thoughts?

We had deeper arguments than the usual this year. one involved him pushing me to the ground and resulting me using my fist. I don't agree w/ relationship violence, but it was horrible. We make up then we argue. I know, yeah we spend a lot of time together. Mostly with his friends. (Oh yea he sells weed, so yea). Last week started horrible. I used his phone and dm'ing other girls some were old some was recent. He has a tinder & I look through it to see what is said. Flirting & more flirting. I get upset & he gets mad at me. After I get off work, he says he never has cheated on me & would never. Hugs me in a tight hug, I cried because I felt like I still didn't believe him. That's when the whole dynamic of our relationship changed. He has came over my house and spent the night three days in a row (I believe it was guilt). Saturday he has avoided me. All day, all night. He reply to me when I would surpass at least three msgs and a phone call. Then it gets later and I go to his house. Basically, he left me crying all night. Then the next day he was gone from his house & I bugged him again. He invited me over w/ his friends, he embarrassed me w/ his "plugs" text that was a meme "of what your girlfriend thinks yur doing, (a pic of asses everywhere in some guys face) he calls him n leaves the room "that's funny u texted that..." I assumed he was at a strip club. I didn't care just the principle. I was right. We argued I left. I didn't text or call he calls me saying "wrong number" purposely. I didn't react so I didn't call back or text him. The next day he texts me "hey, wyd" I didn't reply or call. It upsets me to even think about it. He hasn't done anything either. What should I do?