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- Being too shy.
- Giving off a “don’t talk to me” vibe to strangers.
- Friend zoning every guy you meet in classes and hobby groups or through friends as they don’t make a move soon enough.
- Not saying you want a relationship.

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If you had known the guy for a year, not on a personal level. You know he liked you a year ago and he made an attempt to make something happen. But he came off pretty creepy and suspicious. A year later you haven’t talked, and you still feel the same about him, only to find out whatever you thought of him had a reason behind. Basically, he came off creepy and suspect because he had never attempted anything with a girl before and had no experience trying to make something happen before with anyone. Whenever he talked to you he was extremely nervous, and to top it off he’s been shy his whole life and was stepping way out of his comfort zone doing that. And he’s had depression for 4 years. He also wants the same things you want in a relationship. You probably don’t feel the sane about him as you’re just finding all of this out, but its just a chance. You’ve been single for a while.

Ok so there is this girl I really like and the other week her friend (a guy) told me she likes me. I said “does she” and he replied with “why don’t you ask her?” So I kept talking to him and eventually he said he will talk to her for me soon. I messaged him 2 days ago asking if she said anything and he said it’s complicated and that I should message her because she’s shy which I already know she is shy with this stuff. Anyway I message her on Snapchat as she aired me/read it and ignored. I was devastated by this and told her friend if he was lying to me or not and he said he isn’t and she might have been busy. What do you guys think because I’m partially upset and really confused? I know this could mean nothing at all like she may have been too shy to message back however she messaged me back before she knew I liked her. I dunno she just won’t give me a yes or no so I’m guessing she does like me judging by her friends behavior she just might not be ready yet considering she got hurt in her last relationship and she is just naturally shy. That’s just what I think is most likely the case...:/ ..