Search Results: i like him or enjoy the chase

Most people believe that playing the chasing game in flirting is just the way to do things, but do most girls believe in this? As a guy from the relationships I've experienced, people I've spoken with, and articles I've researched many girls have said they enjoyed the whole flirt and chase thing, but others say it basically annoys them. They just want someone to be real with. There's a girl I'm trying to get close to but we don't see each other a lot. What I want to do is visit her at her Job and just explain some things to her, we already know each other and we've texted a few times. I basically want to ask her a question but it's not the "will you go out on a date with me" question but more of a "will you give me the opportunity to get to know you more" question. Reason being that she's the type of girl that won't go out with someone unless she's had the chance to get to know you, plus she wants someone her family can approve of. I don't want to back her into a corner with the dating question which could cause her to say no without really wanting to. Not looking to get emotional on her I'm not the type to do that but too many people especially guys say not to connect with a girl pass surface value which is kinda dumb to me since that's one of the reasons guys get negative comments in the first place. So what do you girls think?