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Ok so I recently started dating this guy. I didn't really want to have a monogamous relationship to begin with but he really wanted to date so I said fuck it I'll give it a shot. Mind you, he's my first boyfriend. Things where going great but the sex started to get boring, and his drive was low. We talked about an open relationship but decided not to do that, since he didn't like the idea of me sleeping with someone else and I was happy with our current arrangement. We didn't have sex for two days, and then he started asking about reconsidering the open relationship and sounding really upset, so I new something was off. He finally stopped bullshitting and said that he had fucked his ex. side note I get a hall pass since he cheated. The fucked up thing is is him cheating doesn't really make me feel heart broken or make me want to dump him. I basically said "wow really? You could do better." Is there something wrong with me...

A couple of my friends already refused to move in with their bfs.

One of my friend's boyfriend kept insisting to move in and she replied with a ''Hells nope''. They all know what that will lead to already and aren't doing cohabitation. Neither of them want to be just a guy's memory nor get dumped and do that whole procedure of moving in again with another guy and so on.

So I'm guessing next is most of us are going to stay single then since that won't work on all girls either.

He agrees that it sucks for us whenever we have the monthly cramps but admitted that guys in society have it harder. This were the examples we gave:

Man doesn't want marriage nor kids, he's a loser wasting her time. She's strining her along and she needs to dump him.
Woman says doesn't want marriage nor kids yet, he should consider her feelings and maybe wait for her.

Man doesn't want sex (or for whatever reason isn't ready) and girl is upset, thinks he's cheating, he's a jerk, etc.
Woman doesn't want, her wish is respected otherwise it would be rape.

Man cries in public and very few people would help him.
Woman cries and she's immediately getting support.

Man gets stalked by an ex girlfriend and is excused by an ''oh she's just a bit crazy... what a drama queen''.
Woman gets stalked by an ex boyfriend and it's immediately taken into concern.

Man wants his child to be born but too bad if the woman wants to abort it, even if behind his back.
Woman can get to decide whether to abort the child or not even though it's both her and his child.

Man insults and screams at the woman and he's a pig for talking to a lady in that manner.
Woman does that and it's an ''What did he do to deserve it''.

Man doesn't get to decide if the relationship progress. The girl has to say yes to being his girlfriend.
Woman doesn't have to do the whole asking out too much (hardly if ever) and can easily get a boyfriend.