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So from what I’ve gathered over time is that those who sound needy or show some signs of neediness are a real turnoff for girls. However, guys who act like they don’t need girls (given other factors) or are “unavailable” seem to have a higher chance of gettin’ some. Is this true in your book? And additionally how does one appear as the latter to attract those around them?

They say you have tolove yourself and be wholesome on your own before you can be fully ready to date someone. Otherwise, you become somewhat dependent on your partner to be happy.

So, if they're literally the only thing that bridges the gap between you and being happy, shouldn't you be avoided like the plague? Or at least be kept emotionally isolated to not harm yourself or anyone around you?

We've all met these sorts of people in our lives. They only seem content when around around and live off the good vibes they ut out. Kind of like a neighbor with no internet stealing your WiFi.

Are these people to be trusted or not? Usually they're lonley, narcissistic, self-labeled "nice guys" or " nice girls", but in actuality just attention seeking monsters with no true capacity to love anyone but themselves in their own Smeagle/Gollum way. Basically a love-hate relationship with themselves.

What do you think?

The other day I went on a date and she invited back to her place. We ended making out and a little extra. Mostly pillow talk and cuddling though. After a couple hours I said it's getting late im gonna go. I wouldn't have minded staying but I dont want to come of needy by asking.

What are the signs, should I just stay, ask or leave unless she tells me to stay? If your actually read my description how do you think I should have played it?