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I know a lot will judged me for being a two timer. I was never like this before , I only loved one Guy before. But I was cheated a lot and taken for granted. I did not know why my heart has become numb That I entertain all Guys who come into My life even if I am not sure with them. I dont take them seriously.

until I come into a point That there was a Guy who fell in Love with me , serious , listens to all my problem, Caring and consistent. But, I just dont feel for him the same way. He is not really handsome Guy and an ordinary person. I never expect he Will be very serious to me and asking me to come to my house visit My parents and take me to vacations. I feel bad and had conscience That I dont feel the same way for him.

One day, a stranded came into my life. He is my dream Guy That I always want to have handsome, stable Guy, respectful, Blue eyed and perfect. He is also sweet and loving. I think i am falling for him every time we are together. I am also plannig to work in Canada two years from now and surprisingly this guy is from there.

I am very confused who should I Focus my attention into. Should I break UP with my boyfriend who I never had feelings and be with someone who I have feelings with?

So long story short, my boyfriend and I were planning to move in together when his dad got a great new job opportunity across the country. Because my boyfriend is extremely family oriented he decided to move with them, and he wants me to move with him. I've known about this move for a couple months now, and recently got accepted into a University close to where they're moving. My only inhibition is the idea of moving into his parents house until we can find stable jobs in the new area. We were originally planning to get an apartment together (just my boyfriend and I) this spring because he works full time and I have two part time jobs. Now that we're moving to a new area, we won't have stable income for at least a couple months until after we've found jobs. My mom kicked me out last year when I went off to university so I don't have any ties where I currently am.

My question is, is it crazy to live with my boyfriend and his family? The idea is that we'll be living at his parents house for at least a couple months. I told his parents I'd move out and live with my dad if 6 months rolls around and we're still there. I'm afraid living with his family may make them think I'm mooching or free loading. When I offered to pay rent, his father told me "we'll think about it". I've always had a problem with being dependent on others, and I definitely do not want his parents to feel like they've adopted another kid. I don't know what to do because I know if I don't move with him, I'm going to lose him. I'm 20 years old and I have a hard time believing in long term relationships.

So my boyfriend has had a tough year (and life). He got kicked out of his adoptive parents house, was unable to go to college due to money trouble, and has had a history of anxiety and depression (he was a foster child). We’ve been fighting for about a month (been together 8, going on 9) and he’s been going through these random episodes of calling me horrible names and things and then apologizing later. He never did this before. The other night, he called me stoned (we hadn’t spoken in about 2 days) and said he loved me, that he wanted to work on things. I disregarded him because he was stoned. Yesterday morning he called me sober, asked if I could come to his house, he said he didn’t know what it was about me, but he thought being with me would help him. So I went. He made love to me, we went out to dinner, had a nice night. He left for work and then when he got back today I went to sit next to him and lay on his chest. I leaned back and his skin ended up pinching into the wall; I really hurt him but I didn’t mean to. I asked him to come talk to me because I’d been having an anxiety attack earlier this morning and he said no “because I annoyed him” and then he said maybe it wasn’t the depression that was a problem but that. Then he calmed down, came and laid next to me then kissed me before he went back to work. He texted me saying he snaps very easily and that he loves me, etc. I don't know what to make of it. Is he depressed or does he just not care for me anymore?