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Few things happened over the past weeks that have been driving my husband crazy
1) I focus a lot on studying. I haven't cooked anything during quarantine until he asked me to. He was eating frozen food.
2) He was laughing at a movie where the guy was being hit with a plastic stick and he starts laughing. I get upset at him for laughing. I apoligize for this the next day.
3) We were watching Tiger King and the guy was abusing the tiger and he said "awww" and I get upset at him for saying aww because abuse is not cute. He explains he is saying aww because the tiger is cute. I apologize for this the next day.
4) We were house shopping online and he said this house is off the table because it's too small for the price. I said we should at least see it. And after nagging he said its off the table. I get upset. I walk away from him as we were walking in the neighborhood. So I ended up walking by myself and so was he. and i yell at him in the apartment complex stairwell.
5) I was so stressed I started yelling at him and accusing him of treating his family different than mine because he wanted to hangout with his because they social distance outside but not mine because mine only sit indoors. I screamed at him. He apologized and offered to make me dinner and I kept yelling at him. He couldnt sleep until 2:00am and had a hard time working the next day from exhaustion. As a result he leaves the apartment and goes to his parents house. he's been there for 3 weeks. He texts me all the bullet points of things I need to change about myself for our marriage to work. I responded but then ignored the rest of his texts because I didn't want to work our marriage issues over text. He insisted that for now he wants to text. After days of ignoring him he messages my dad a text about divorcing me. My dad is so upset at him and now my husband has cooled off a bit and says we need to talk before we come to this decision. But I text his parents to call my dad before he texts me to talk.

My parents invite us for dinner these days, and my husband is always hesitant because he wants to be careful...

Anyways, we went to my parents house yesterday for dinner and my husband got up before telling me and said "thanks for everything guys, we're gonna head out" .. he said that because I had a cough and he had some stomach pain so he felt we needed to get out of there.

Today, we weren't feeling symptoms and his parents invited us to meet at a parking lot and social distance. He immediately was willing to do that.

I got mad at him for being different with my parents, but he said his parents are outdoors and it's not a dinner, they're more careful about social distancing. I also was annoyed that he initiated leaving my parents house without me. He apologized, but I'm still upset.

He went to quarantine at his parents house because I was so upset and crying and refused to be good, so he wasn't able to sleep, and he couldn't get any work done the next day. He said he needs a break.