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I don't understand why people need to assert their self-worth and their "congruence with their gender and self-identity" via 'acting more womanly' and/or 'being more manly'.

Technically, if you were born with XX chromosomes with proper genes and stuff, you're female. If you were born with XY chromosomes with proper genes and stuff, you're male.

No matter what you do, you're still the sex that you were born with.

So why care about how your behavior is perceived by some archaic cultural imperatives, when you can be who you want to be? Why assert your self-worth through broken concepts, why resort to the division of social genders, and why enforce behavior patterns on children to "brainwash them" into being "proper Men/Women"?

This whole idea is silly to me. The reason why I ask this question is based on the notion that "a guy must be taller than a girl, so that the girl feels properly feminine". Why? What does even feeling "feminine" mean? Congruence with social standards? Why can't you be who you are? Why can't you just thrive to be the best person you can be, no matter how "masculine" or "feminine" that is perceived?

I think this notion makes us be held down and bogged down in a series of traditions, rather than properly progress as people.

Check out this site:
www.plannedparenthood.org/.../...dentity-26530.htm

"Gender roles are the way people act, what they do and say, to express being a girl or a boy, a woman or a man. These characteristics are shaped by society."

"Feminine traits are ways of behaving that our culture usually associates with being a girl or woman."

"What Are Gender Stereotypes?
A stereotype is a widely accepted judgment or bias regarding a person or group — even though it is overly simplified.[...] This is called sexism."

People should be who they are. Act like they naturally would. Be the best they can. Not be bogged down by silly concepts , broken ones.

Does it ever bother you that women and girls don't have to do much to get noticed? In other words she just has to look approachable and guys will come. But if your a guy you have to have a good job, nice car be over 6ft tall etc to even get noticed. I'll admit I check out a lot of female profiles and a lot say In a Relationship and I say to myself yeah what a shocker like she had to do anything to get noticed. I'm starting to feel more and more awful being a guy because society puts so much pressure on us to be the ''ALPHA MALE''. And who came up with that anyways? And what about Its the guys job to approach? That's another thing I hate. Women are brainwashed by the media into thinking they can't approach. Yes I know some women approach but not as often as men. All I'm saying is I don't think females know how easy or how lucky they have it when it comes to dating. That's probably the reasons why some guys grow up to be bitter hateful, women haters or worse criminals.