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I am very conflicted at the moment about what I should do. I have always been serious in dating for marriage. But until now there has been no one suitable after searching for years.

A bit of background :
Every interested single I have met either has been run through by Chad and Tyrone, is a single mother with a few kids or is obese or all of the above.

At 6 feet tall with a body forged from lifting weights. With both university and professional degrees. A permanent job as part of senior management for a conglomerate. And the best being debt free.

All this takes time and I only dipped my toes into the dating pool at 28 after reaching management level.

Now the dilemma:
I think everyone has an idea what kind of girl I am looking for with my kind of profile and the perks I bring to the table. The problem is there aren't any.

My parents (left leaning which is shocking) are telling me to look at 30 year old women as candidates for being my wife and not care about virginity, her past or it will get worse for me later.

My friends are advising me to only play with them for sex only. I have never had a relationship like this before and have so far resisted but as the years go by I am getting more and more tempted to just date for sex. I am not getting any younger.

I can say without question that I do not want to marry women who reached 30 or those who cannot even take care of their health or morals.

Should I just lower my standards to date women, enjoy the sex and if someone better comes just replace the current woman I am dating?

My parents are against this of course, my friends are for me doing this.

Currently interested in a few women but recently found out that all of them have already been run through by Chad and Tyrone.

Spoiler alert: I have no sex skills since I don't play around, smoke, gamble or drink.

Some context: I am a 19 year old guy who is a virgin. I've never even kissed a girl, held hands, or have been in any kind of relationship with a girl at all. I would be a 19 year old freshman in college, which is already kind of old, and I'm taking a gap year because of all this covid stuff, which means that I will be the 20 year old virgin freshman on campus next year. I downloaded tinder to try and get some kind of experience so I'm not super awkward later. I got some matches, and got ghosted by every single one of them. Most never even responded once, and I tried all kinds of different opening lines. I got tinder gold as a last ditch effort to find some luck, and I saw that a 57 year old woman swiped on me. Out of curiosity, I matched. She then said she wanted me to be her sugar baby. I assumed it was a bot and went along just for fun, but then it turns out that she is a real person.

The situation: She is offering me $700 a week to be in a relationship with her, and almost all of that relationship would be online. I'm unsure about it because on one hand, she is older than my mother, it feels morally wrong, and if sex becomes part of the arrangement, I don't want to lose my virginity to her. On the other hand, I'm a poor college student and the money would be amazing, no girl has ever shown any interest in me except for her, she seems nice I guess, and I don't want to be the real life 40 year old virgin.