Search Results: actions louder than words

He Says " Just Friends," but Actions Speak Louder than Words

I have recently started hanging out with a guy who I've known for the better part of seven years. He is the older brother of one of my best friends' fiance. Both of us have within the last year ended pretty turbulent...

Anonymous

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Shopping & Gifts

Don't actions speak louder than words?

My ex was the perfect gentleman, while we were together at least. He always did cute stuff for me (i.e. surprising me between lectures, writing poems, taking care of me when I was sick). He would text me right after he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can any guys give me insight on how to handle confusing signals?

So, here's the saga. I started dating this guy in March 2008. We were both about 6 months out of long term relationships at the time. It was instantly fantastic, he scheduled our second date while we were on our first...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

I look across the 5-star restaurant table at my suitor who is 20 years older than me. He gazes back and tells me, “You are the most beautiful woman I have ever known.” I melt. He looks deep into my eyes – I feel as if...

30sGal

Xper 5 Age: 49

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Break Up & Divorce

Problems with a girl that I used to go out with and cheated on her now were back together

about 2 years ago I was going out with this girl then we broke it off then I started up with another girl. well the first weekend we were tohether the other girl was calling me on my cellphone but I wouldent answer it,...

txace2008

Xper 4 Age: 60

Lazy vs. not in love anymore

My boyfriend has always felt resentful of my wanting him to call me, text me and tell me he loves me. He's very lazy! He feels he should not HAVE to do these things, that I know he loves me. Which was true until recently....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Am I just making a fool of myself?

I like this guy at work. There is small history there, but we never really did more than go out once. We talk when I see him during a shift change. History: When I thought he actually had interest (post first date) we...

Anonymous

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He shows that he loves me but refuses to tell me he does?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years, up until the past 8 or 9 months he has always told me he loves me. I feel that he does and his actions would point towards yes but when I tell him I love him he...

amosph123

Xper 5 Age: 45

Family & Friends

My boyfriend has been ditching me and I don't know what to do about it anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, but I'm leaving for college in less than a week. This past weekend he ditched me for his friends. He tried telling me since we didn't have specific plans that it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Honor: Your Words Have Power

Your favorite song comes on the radio. If you’re a woman, you might squeal and jump up and down in the seat. If you’re a man, you emphatically nod, say something like “Aaaaaaawwwwwwww yeah . . . “ then crank the...

UltraDramatic

Xper 5 Age: 50

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The good old, Does he like me?

I met this guy about a week before school ended. He is going to a different school in the fall, but in the same city. We became facebook friends, and were sort of jokey-flirty. We wrote a LOT to each other. Things...

fartlard

Xper 5 Age: 37

He said "I love you too" but looked away while he said it.

I've been friends with this guy for three years. His mom died a year ago. We were romantically involved before she died; after she died things got really confusing and hard to deal with; the romance fizzled out. Today...

Anonymous

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Dating

When is it too much?

I have been with my boyfriend nearly 15 months we split up after 8 months of being together for 2 months. We lived together so he moved out of the house and left me to pay for everything on my own. He said he felt...

amylou0702

Xper 5 Age: 39

He wants my mind, body and soul

My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and at the beginning of our relationship he's told me he has a hard time loving someone due to his past relationship experiences. He doesn't directly...

Anonymous

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Society & Politics

Getting hurt, Anybody agree with me?

I read a lot of questions on here about people wanting to know how "protect themselves" from getting hurt when perusing serious relationships. When I considered the moral fortitude of many of the girls I've dated (road...

GruffBalloon

Xper 6 Age: 37

Do actions speak louder than words?

My most recent girlfriend wrote the nicest letter to me telling me how much she cared for me and how perfect I was for her. I mean this was a full blown out love letter. on the other hand. She was always late, never...

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Do actions actually speak louder than words?

When it comes to relationships, is that saying correct? Cause I tend to only believe it if the actions indicate bad news. Such as if a guys says he loves you but doesn't treat you that great - then I think you should go...

B4286

Xper 5 Age: 40

Boyfriend's mom

Here is my dilemma: I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, he and I are very much in love. During part of our relationship we were engaged, but decided to step back and take things a bit slower, we are still dating...

Anonymous

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