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OK, so these are both characters for my short stories and I need your opinion on which one you think is more attractive.

The first one is Cherry. She's all that comes to mind when you think "a good woman" - dutiful wife, strict yet loving mother with a somewhat "snow queen" disposition. She believes you show love through deeds like washing up, ironing your clothes and making sure the apartment you live in shines and sparkles. That's not to say she's boring and has no interests outside the house. She's pretty athletic and really loves everything "classic" - classic books, classical music, classic movies, classic jazz, and she has a narrow choice of her favourites in every cathegory that doesn't change much over time. Sometimes you wonder if she does it only to be sophisticated. She's also a very good worker and probably will be dedicated to her 9-5 job until retirement. Actually everything she does is very high in quality, but sometimes her actions may seem repetitive, making her look a bit plain, but it can't be denied that she tries her hardest to be the perfect in what she does, and seeing her investment and attention to detail, it's hard to deny that she's an admirable woman.

Then there's Sarah, and you often wonder how the hell she manages to get a grasp of herself, not to mention the tons of stuff she does. She's an all-or-nothing kinda person - she will be the most driven worker in her workplace as long as her job fascinates her, and she will have easy times switching between professions. You can never get bored with her (if anything, you can get physically tired of her presence), she's upbeat, smiley and extremely invested in people's affairs (her having a wide range of friends, her interactions may seem a bit shallow, even though she's whole-heartedly invested in what people have to say) She may seem flighty, but she's loyal at heart when she cares about you. Apart from that, there's only one thing you can be sure of when you decide to live with her - you will need to either clean it yourself or shell out a few bucks if you wish to see the floor or eat from clean plates. But hey, maybe her creativity in the kitchen and in bed will make up for it?

for the person you will or will not date. Compared to your own looks and qualities, do you think it's fair for you to expect the women/ men you approach to date you? Or do you aim too high? And if so, are you willing to work on yourself to get closer to their level?

And please be honest and leave your ego's aside just for this question.

For me, a similar level is when you're about as physically attractive (with little make-up) and have personalities that complement each other.