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This is a question about your take on these certain kinds of people.

A lot of guys and girls at my school (but more guys) engage in a lot of casual sex on a whim and can't handle relationships very well. Many of them will only pretend to like someone for sex or manipulate them to hook up. Some others will get a girl/boyfriend but may secretly cheat or try and find someone else while in the relationship. As you may guess, these relationships generally fail and cause a lot of heartbreak or embarrassment for the victim.

However, all of these girls and boys that do these things say they want a "real" relationship. They want to find a partner that is loyal to them, in-experienced in the same department of one night stands and adultery and someone who loves them for who they are despite their past or their personality. I myself find this to be very hypocritical. So you bang a lot of people and hurt toy with people's emotions yet want someone who will never do that? Okay...

Also, they want this "real" relationship to be late on in life most of the time. A lot of the guys that I have described above call me out on the fact that I want a girlfriend who I care about and not some hoe, but they say later on in life they want a wife that they love and is innocent in every way. This is also a thing I do not understand. The girls want a husband who will get them a nice engagement ring, have a nice tropical island wedding and will give her all of his time and love and never even look at another woman.

What do you think? Do people like this deserve a real honest relationship with their wants in a partner or not? Do you have any stories to tell or other perspectives to this situation?