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I never gave a shit about clubs all throughout elementary, middle, and high school... however, in my first year of community college, I decided to join a choir club. They say it's an easy way to bond and make friends, so why not?

Upon joining, I very easily ended up hitting it off with a very beautiful blonde girl. You'd think she'd be taken, but though she was very attractive, she was a bit too sarcastic, deadpan, and surreal for most people's liking. She was polite but didn't act overly cheerful or anything, and often made dark jokes and swore a lot.

I found this absolutely hilarious though. And she began to smile at me a lot more once she saw I was one of the few people who understands her humor.

As time went on, we hung out more and more, and grew a closer friendship. She wasn't overly affectionate or anything, but often told me I was a cool guy, and that she liked spending time with me.

One day at school, in the hallway our club was located, where we were the only ones, she greeted me as usual, then walked up to me as usual, but unlike usual, just hugged me, her face to my chest, and told me I smelled so good.

I was absolutely shocked. This was a good thing, but I had no idea she liked me in this sort of way. I thought she only wanted to be my friend. I had no idea what to do, so I just stood there, and said, "uh thanks", as she slowly let go of me, and pretended nothing happened a few seconds later.

Then another day, when we were outside chilling, she said that when outside she can't stand wearing pants and only wears shorts, and told me her legs were so smooth and I just had to feel them. I touched her leg lightly, and she was like, "That's it? Come on, actually feel it bro. Like actually sink your hand into my thigh a little. Give me a fucking massage." And so I did, very nervously.

Both instances caught me off guard, as she just acts so casual otherwise.

If she comes onto me though, I'm going for it. She's fucking awesome.

My attitude towards girls has always been pretty arrogant, puffed up, and yeah... like a player. I've seen guys before who catered to girls and always lmao at em, swearing that could never be me. What I always do is play it cool. Usually their confidence shakes and it's easy to tell. I'm in college though, in a new place, 2nd yr. Lot of Black girls here, and a lot with a similar look. 1 of them had it too. She's 5'3, SUPER THICC, had on black tights and kept a poker face. I thought it was no problem, so I went to using my main move. First, ignore the booty and upper legs, don't look down. I tried my BEST. I knew she was thicc though and wore black tights. After about 3 seconds I knew I can't, went, "uggh!"-looked down, eyes landing on her booty, then upper legs. Instantly, jaw dropped😲😲. My cocky act disappeared and it pissed me off, so I looked up, hoping to distract her. But I looked right into her face... and she kept her face straight. I was like, "uhh"..."uh"... and she stayed😑😑😑. I gave up, unable to break through it! Friday, I went up to her... apologized. I told her how I used to be, what I tried on her and the result... and why it didn't work on her. My ego hit rock bottom. Was it the right thing to admit that to her?