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We’ve known each other for two years but haven’t spoken much till we got a chance to work together. The conversation started going really well - asked if I had a boyfriend and other personal questions. I told him I want to find a new accomodation and he said we could move in together. He texted me the same night to make sure I was serious. Then, went for a viewing but the place wasn’t nice. And then, I let him know I asked friends for help and if it doesn’t work out, I’ll start looking online. He said that’s good that both of us are searching. Then, I suggested we could hang out on our day off and he said yes. the next day, my friend was FaceTiming one guy I slept with last year and ‘my guy’ was with him at work. I only waved to say hi and that’s it. Then, ‘my guy’ messaged me if I was still coming over to his place for shisha and drinks with his friends and I confirmed and he gave me the full address. he also started sexual jokes like I want you baby, will we be eating each other, I will sort you out, stay over and we’ll go to work together the next day etc. I thought he was drunk so I was just joking but I put my standards - friends or something more serious. Next morning, he asked me to tell him what time I was coming because he had a training at his other job. He was running late and then made another sexual joke. I called to check if he left. He said he was very lazy and apologised twice. Then, I asked what happened that he suddenly started being sexual. He sweared he was just joking and he’s a serious guy. And if he had a chance, he’d come to see me. Then, I told him he can make it up to me. He said he’ll do very soon. I told him hopefully and I’ll let him take the initiative. He said ‘yes, I hope. Ok hun. You too’. Will he message me again or not? Do you think the other guy told him we hooked up that’s why he had a random conversation with me? Did I show him I’m a serious girl? Does he still want to move in with me?

Ever since #olderandwiser asked his question about singing habits.. So many people sing but privately. This got me thinking how much I love singing but only do it alone.. I always wanted to play guitar when I was little but had no place to practice. Then I was busy working and forgot.

I think it would be really cool to hook up with other guitarists and jam or sit on a stoop playing and singing. Maybe write poetry out to music..

I doubt anyone would say no don’t play guitar lol but I wonder if there’s Much random playing it if that is more a folk song thing to do decades ago.

i think it would be fun to get a traveling guitar and pull it out whenever I wanted to sing

lol I dk if this would he annoying... I mean I wouldn’t be singing crazy or loud or in building or crash parties.. just thinking like in my balcony or in the park.. and my voice is nice enough.
(I’ve been told by many people it’s very pleasant singing voice but also I know it’s not bad. I’m not going to be a rock star but I can def carry a tune without breaking glass)

im in the United States.. I’m guessing guitar etiquette will change depending upon cultural mores if different countries.

I really dont want to put this in “ other” .. it feels like I’m giving my question up for Adorno. I wish there was a hobby section. 😐

Thank you ! 😊