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I was in a relationship , that relationship was toxic but additive too.. It ended because he was cheating on me. I was not able to move on from that but luckily i got a frnd (a random frnd or we can say stranger ) he had also suffered from same problem and thats why he was able to help me in move on from that relationship moments... After that he proposed me not for relationship but for being his partner for life... truly speaking he is not at all good in looks but i like him by his heart and the way he loves , respect and care for me which was totally missing in my relationship.. so I don't know why i said yes just because he loves me (i dont). Then we was together and he was the one who does not want anything from me neither money or physical things.. in my past relationship that boy was forcing me for money (gifts) and for physical too... So i got a perfect guy who loves me a lot... But then my frnds fam my sis , no one was in favour of this relationship and because of his looks and no confidence no one likes him and was not giving respect to him... Then i just stop talking with him and on his bday too i was destroy his bday because of a fight then whenever i feel like i call him but many and actually most of the time i dont pick up his phn.. then also he was same with me.. and now also he just say this to me that he will Marry me only and no one can take my place in his life... I dont know why he is doing so , what he really wants from me... Or is it true love? Let me tell you this also that he is a big lier and he has lied many times.. like about his financial things and some stupid stories which was not true and i always get to know when he is lying...

Now the main thing is this, that i want know is it true love or not.. should i wait and watch him like the way i am doing or i will loose true love? Should i talk to him and be with him or just watch him?

So me and my boyfriend got into a small tiff, not like a relationship ruining argument or anything but it kinda irritated me.

We visit his mom at least once a week which is fine, she's taking care of her brother's baby who is almost 2. He's a sweet little boy, beautiful. His parents are addicted to drugs though which is why he's with my boyfriend's mom.
Anyway my boyfriend wanted to wash his car while we were there (we live in an apartment with no where to wash, so he does this in his mom's yard) and on his way outside he asked if the baby wanted to come outside , and then said "she can watch him while I wash the car." By SHE he meant me.
He didn't even ask me if I wanted too or minded. And I don't mind kids, and I want one MAYBE 2 of my own one day, but I always get uncomfortable when around OTHER people's kids. I find them cute, but I don't like to be put in charge or left alone with them because I get nervous when they cry or what if they get hurt.

Such was the case. I just didn't feel comfortable watching him, and also I had brought my Nintendo switch with me because I had every intention of playing it while my boyfriend washed his car. (He usually spends 4 hours washing so I get kinda bored waiting on him). But because he volunteered me to watch the baby not only did I get no say, but also I had to spend my day off work babysitting.

He didn't understand why I was mad and replied "I thought you'd want too."

Am I the A-hole here?