Search Results: willing to wait

- Talking on daily basis (for +-4 months) and never ignoring you, saying sorry when he replies later, keeps the conversation going
- Texting when he wakes up, sometimes during work and until he goes to bed.
- Keeping you up to date: talking about work, what he has been up to, ... Also asking how presentations went, etc.
- He sometimes says "we should/could"
- Always willing to listen, help, motivate you and cheer you up

But he doesn't flirt and waited 3 months until he asked if would be interested to meet up...

I really like talking to him and I got the feeling we kind of connect, but how do I know if its one sided?

I’m 23 and still a virgin. I’ve never had a boyfriend but this guy I am referring to wants to be exclusive and seems to want the long-term relationship that can lead to marriage and such. He told me he isn’t rushing me to have sex, however anytime we are intimate, he puts out the that this is hard for him and told he isn’t willing to wait for marriage. He believes that the guy and girl should have sex to confirm there is an intimate connection to determine if he is in love with them over time or just to maintain the relationship.
Neither of us are religious but he seems to like me enough to take off work every weekend to see me and has treated me well. We laugh and have fun in most every aspect. I am scared to lose my virginity to him, any guy in general. My reasons are that he may leave me and I left with that regret. He says that isn’t going to happen. Is he messing with me?