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I kinda wanna talk about this issue because how men react to emotion is alarming. Put aside what your dads and your moms told you, men, "men don't cry", "act like a man", "you're being a ____"--

I want to know do all men actually feel like you can't express yourself to anyone? Leave the 'no homo' thing behind, leave the pride behind and actually say this. I've allowed the anon button for you who want to express yourself on this situation.

If you don't know what toxic masculinity is, it's you telling a man/boy/kid to not cry bc men "don't cry", they "don't share" or "show emotion" or they're "weak". I'm gonna be honest but that really bothers us women (leaving the closure and the relationships to the side) because we want to know, if you're a friend or a stranger that you're ok. The rates for suicide for men are so high and it's because they're taught to suppress their feelings and usually that creates a problem in a relationship for someone whether they're from the lgbtq community or in a straight relationship. Abuse sometimes happens because they're taught to suppress feelings. So I want to know. What do YOU think about toxic masculinity? Remember this is anon so technically (hopefully) you feel you're safe here (:

I don't know why I comment. Its not normally not my thing beyond gag. I guess I’ve been too sick/ brain dead to physically talk/ have a meaningful conversation with anyone I know by text or otherwise.. Sharing an opinion as a stranger seemed simpler 🤔🤷‍♀️ NO 😂😂

I made a few comments (nothing rude. Controversial possibly but entirely civil) THREE days ago.

I’ve since received 20 notifications despite having provided closure is n five separate occasions - you know in case there was an actual misunderstanding -they won’t stop. 🥵

Do people expect you to only talk if you are a clone?

Gag is nothing compared to this lol

My boyfriend started forgiving someone this year.

The offense was committed in 2007. He tried to forgive in 2010, only to confirm his suspicious that the offender was fake/insincere in the apology, kept talking garbage about him behind his back and continue repeating the same offense multiple times over the years.

He never got a real apology/closure but has recently decided to close the chapter and let it go. He only decided to let it go (whether they're sorry or not) for his own health. He said he kept punishing himself by not letting go. Still was 13 years a lot of time spent?