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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. We are living together and everything has been great. We were talking about movie stars that we fancy and what not... And the curious side got the best of me. So I asked if he checks anyone else out. He told me 5 girls he sees on campus. They have big hips, big boobs, big asses, and a flat tummy. I have all of that except the flat tummy. My stomach is anything but flat. I got really hurt and very self conscious about it... I know I asked but I didn't know what to expect. So should I be worried or am I too jealous?

This question may or may not be asked on here but I'm not active and I ask out of concern. I don't have a flat stomach but I have lost a ton of weight (about 30 pounds) and am still trying to trim down my stomach. I have PCOS so unfortunately trimming all my belly fat is really hard even though I eat pretty healthy and exercise. I'll admit I don't look bad elsewhere, to describe my body type I'm 5'2, athletic looking, c cup boobs, my thighs aren't thick but not thin so somewhere in between and I have a round butt. I still have a bit of a pooch though and I feel like it ruins everything that looks good about me, especially when I sit down. So guys, if a girl had a bit of stomach fat would it completely turn you off?

Basically! I'm not a skinny girl (no hate to girls who are) & I like to flaunt my curves. My tummy has never & never will be flat. I would have to do some extreme exercising & nearly starve myself to achieve that. Which is just fucking stupid & I refuse to do that. Anyway! I went out with my boyfriend the other night. I wore a body-hugging sweater dress & some killer gray knee high boots. I was feeling GREAT. I was strutting like nobody's fucking business. Then all my confidence faltered when some idiot walked up to my boyfriend & I with this: "Oh wow! Congrat, what are you having?" *gesturing to my stomach as well* Then when he saw my clearly shocked & angry face, he simply said, "Ohhh... from back there... you looked like you got a bump." All I could muster was to flip my hair, walk away & shout "THANKS!" till he shut up. I literally wanted to just cry. I felt so fucking pretty that night & some wrongly chosen words broke me down. Is it just me being crazy or is it SO RUDE to comment on a woman's "bump"? Because you can't always tell, OBVIOUSLY, who's actually pregnant. UNLESS you have a flat fucking tummy of course! So I feel like, it's best not to even say anything at all. Save yourself from looking like a complete douchebag & hurting a "fat" chick's feelings.