Search Results: is he being insensitive

Is the problem my clinginess or is he being selfish?

My ex dumped me in January after dating for 3 years. Everything was fine until 8 months into the relationship he cheated on me with a previous crush who finally showed interest but said he regretted it and we got back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Trying to get back with the girl I love..

we were dating since 2005. I used to be so bad like maybe not uncaring but a little insensitive, but we both were. telling each other not to worry about little things, don't sweat the small stuff, and we used logic a lot...

geronimo

Xper 5 Age: 37

Was I in the wrong, as I'm being to wonder? My ex thinks I am.

A girl I was with for circa 2 years broke you with over the phone. She said she was unhappy and dint want to do this anymore. The day before we were off on holiday together which she had asked us both to take off work....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls (or boys) intentionally try and hurt to alleviate guilt?

a girl I was seeing for circa 2 years dumped me over the phone saying she was unhappy, didn't know why but wants to end it. The day before we were on holiday, walking round a zoo together. Anyway, a week after she phoned...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I can't get his out of my head

Hi all, my situation is this. A girl I was with for nearly 2 years broke up with me over the phone. The days before we were on holiday together, lying in bed, going to cinema, even went to the zoo. She phoned me the day...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't know if I can juggle the both sides of him

My boyfriend is showing signs of a drug addiction. I believe its cocaine. Actually I have known about it for 8months. I confronted him with it and of course denies it. He said if I believed such a thing then maybe we...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What should I do about my friend that is a girl that I like but she doesn't know?

Long story short, I have this friend that's a girl. I'll call her Kate. I've known Kate for a couple months and we are pretty good friends. I give her advice all the time and we go to parties and have a good time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is he being insensitive, weird or am I just off? Any help appreciated!

A relative of mine who I was very close with and who I cared for recently passed away and I am very confused with the reaction of a guy friend of mine. he would always ask about this relative and we talked a lot about the...

Perry1

Xper 5 Age: 43

What treatment do women like better?

so what exactly attracts women more. is it worth all of the time and effort to show her that your friendly, trustworthy, and the over all nice guy that is genuinely interested in her? or is it some how better to be not...

Jack_C

Xper 5 Age: 37

Dating

They never seem to be attracted to me in the way that I am.

I have a hard time deciding whether to ask strictly women, or men for this question, so I will simply leave it open. Anyhow, I have never been a particularly mean individual or a particularly insensitive once but for some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I may have treated my crush like a research subject... Should I apologize?

All right, I am what many would call an intellectual, and so is my crush. We are both shy, but I am the more assertive one. I was thrilled to see that my crush was in my summer school class and tried talking to and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Should I leave my boyfriend?

i don't know what to do or think . My boyfriend was gonna propose. Then he gets cold feet cause of hang ups he has from his ex. So we're fighting all weekend cause he is being insensitive and makes plans to talk then...

blondie252

Xper 4 Age: 42

I got upset about my mother who passed away, and it pissed my friend off.

I have been friends with this guy for several years, and he told me that he doesn't understand why I can't just get over it. The fact that he said that seemed really insensitive, and almost cruel. I was kind of drunk at...

marley86

Xper 6 Age: 40

What should I do about this guy???

So my ex and I are trying to work on our 'friendship' but sex seems to be in the way, we don't kiss because he says it will make us more attached or whatever. I don't want to have sex but sometimes it just happens but HE...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I being insensitive?

I've been dating this really great guy for the past month or so, but because he goes to school out of state I don't get to seem him as often, we text and talk on the phone everyday and things have seemed to be going great...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

I love him, but...

He can be such a jerk! It's been ever since Valentine's Day, really, when he spent the entire day talking to another girl and his friends and ignoring me, even though I was having a bit of a bad day. It started before...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He keeps our relationship a secret.

I have been "with" a man for one year and care very deeply for him. He has been separated for 5 years and has a 13 year old son who he has most of the time. He and his former spouse maintain a cordial co-parenting...

Molly-

Xper 4 Age: 60

How delicate is the male ego?

I recently told a male friend that an ex of mine would get annoyed when I would hang out with him and would threaten to harm my friend. (Reason why we broke up). Considering that my ex was a lot taller and bigger than my...

poopie

Xper 3 Age: 47