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the purpose of this question is to have an idea about the level of tolerance toward a specific religion,

I spent a lot of years in an Arabic country and I learned a bit more about the Islamic culture, did you know that the face vale isn't a part of the Islamic culture,also did you know that in Tunisia and Lebanon women are treated as equals(as they should) , plus I've seen a similar question to this, most girls said yes but, they had some concerns so I tried to clear out some issues in order for me to get better pole results

considering these facts:

-he won't try to convert you or ask you to change any thing about your self/life style, and will respect your believes...

-he can marry a non-Muslim girl if it comes to that...

-when it comes to sex, he can have sex with you provide he gets the blessing of your father/older brother, and you 2 agree to a spiritual marriage by saying out-loud/writing the words" I accept marring you" or something like that, all this should be done in the presence of 2 witnesses , PS this marriage isn't binding at all to a non-Muslim girl...

PS when I was in japan,this girl said that we couldn't date unless I cleansed my soul by standing under a waterfall for 1 min the water was freezing, I thought if I touched my nose it would fall off, but she was hot and strangely busty , I guess every religion has it's weirdness...

so when you answer site your reasons whether it's a yes or a no, and your religious affiliation and if you ever had a strange encounter with some religious practices please share,

Muslim girls aren't allowed to date non-Muslim guys so this question is for girls only...

So ladies, I've heard a variety of responses on this question in my personal life and now I'm hoping to get a broader perspective.

Once you become "official" with your guy, how long until you want to meet his family/close friends?

For me we have to have been together at least three months before I'll start introducing her to my close friends and generally it has to last around a year before I will introduce her to my family. The latter is because I have a very uncommon family life (brothers are significantly older and married) and it is very complicated to introduce a girl to them all, also I have a niece and nephew, so I really don't want to expose them to anyone unless it is really serious as I don't see them too often due to my career choice.

It's not that I have an issue with meeting their family and friends, I'm just a very private person and cherish those I'm close to. I'd still take her out with friends etc. I just have a few friends that I've known for most of my life and we have an agreement that things have to be going pretty steady before we introduce a girl to one of them.

So ladies, what say you? How long till you want to meet your guy's family?