Search Results: too close or too distant

My Abusive Relationship

I want to share the story of my past relationship, hopefully to give people some insight on what abusive relationships are like and how patronising abusers can be. I hope this will give any current victims some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Girlfriend and I seem distant and things aren't right. Wondering how this looks to others, any help?

My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now. Things started off all joyful and loved up but recently things have got worse. A lot of this is coming from the stress she's under at work. She's been given...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Does he care or not? What do I do now? help please?

Happily engaged currently but last summer my SO had a good friend who ended up falling for me big time, and I mistakenly continued to let him talk to me and allow his feelings to grow. And I told him if it was too much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls act emotionally distant when they like you?

So I like my girl best friend and she know it. I'm pretty sure she likes me too even though she said she didn't know when I asked her. We spend a lot of time together. I've notice she laughs at my dumb jokes more. tells...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why guys act distant?

So I've been away in the states for a month for work, while here, i met a guy, who had been taking me out. He's always very chivilrous, picks me up, opens doors etc. He knows my time here is limited, but i may be spending...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to recover from a bad first date?

I met a girl online about three weeks ago. We took an immediate like to each other and we flirted pretty heavily with each other. We're both kind of awkward people and more homebodies than the kind to go out and about....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Distressed because of a friend. did I do the right thing?

this is my first friendship ever. this girl and i were new in school and we met in the entering tests. we weren't close we just said hi in the hallways because she already made a friend and i sort of started hanging out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Help guys, Does it mean more now or am I totally crazy?

Been benefitting with a friend for 7+ years! I enjoy every second!! we stated when we started we would not say I love u or talk relationship and I'm ok with that, however lately he was super distant but paying close...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Never had a relationship & this guy I met seems amazing, post-kiss he's distant. Thinking about confronting him about it? We're still friends though?

I met this guy at a class ~2 1/2 months ago, we did a small class project together & hit things off really well, going on lunch dates after class every other week over the course of 6 weeks. After the 2nd lunch date we...

SixAL91

Xper 4 Age: 35

Family & Friends

I don't know what to do with her anymore?

So, I have this friend (girl) whom I know from 4 years and since last one year when she went through turmoil and came close to me. From being to distant friends we became inseparable but mostly because she would call me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Extreme mixed signals from a girl. Any girl willing to help me explain them?

I am really confused by the mixed signals that a girl is sending me. Initially, when i first met her, i was attracted to her and but was not interested in her. However, because we ran into each other a lot around campus,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Overcoming The Friendzone

Note: I don't really believe in the friendzone . This is simply me reminiscing my past as a "nice guy" and what I learned from not being upfront. Chapter 1: Mr. Nice Guy I) Touching while calling you buddy She had this...

chocolatedragon

Yoda Age: 30

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Boyfriend's been distant.. should I give him space?

So it's a long story but I can sum this up. *hes on probation *got in trouble at school *was told by his po that if he disrespected his mom she'd send him to the worst possible lockup she could *he ran away *i snuck him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does this guy hate me now?

he is one of my coworkers and before anything happened between us, he was usually pretty nice to me. He would ask how I was doing and was always asking if he could make me something (we work in fast food) and was...

Andrea_xo

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is it weird that I only loved someone online?

I only fell in love once and it was with a girl online we were addicted calling each other every single day especially before going to sleep , i couldnt have this connection with any other girl even the girls i meet in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We were good friends & now he's cold?

I met this guy at work and we became pretty close friends pretty quickly. We'd have breakfast almost everyday and he'd come to me about advice about his ex and would vent about work and stuff and then we suddenly had a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I be upset that the guy i'm dating wou;d rather hangout with his friend then me?

I've been dating this guy for 5 months and we only saw eachother once this month. I feel like he kept making excuses why he can't hangout. He's only free on weekends cause he works all week/all day. The first excuse was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does he want? Says he likes me and then says just needs a friend but called me his soul mate?

So there is this guy and we are completly compatable and after a month or so of hanging out I told him I liked him and asked him on a date. He kissed me, then he said he's not ready, then he said he wanted to date but...

Anonymous

(36-45)