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When I hang out with women they seem to bring up the conversation of sex. Sometimes they do it when I am with you alone and sometimes they do it in person.

For example, I have a Lesbian coworker who is always talking about sex around me. She keeps asking me about my sex life and things like that. Sometimes I even give her advice on how to please her girlfriend. I feel she is wanting to know about my sex life because my lady coworkers are talking about me.

When we go out drinking to the bars, I am often with a group of my coworkers. The topic of sex comes up often. I give less details than I would privately but we have fun and interesting conversations. But it is the ladies that bring up the topic of sex and not me.

I work with a coworker that is heterosexual. I was concerned about a scar on her face and asked her if she was okay. I was worried it was domestic abuse. She then said it was because her husband bit her during sex. Then she started giving me details at work about how she likes sex rough.

There is another heterosexual coworker in our friend group that drove me home one night. She gave me details about who she had sex with and such.

I don't want to get in trouble but I am open about my sex life. Is it appropriate to talk to coworkers or friends about sex? Why are my coworkers just loading me with sexual details? To be clear, I am sexually attracted to my coworkers and I am trying hard not to flirt with them.