Search Results: he talks to his ex about our relationship

What should I do? How do I speak to my ex nicely?

So , this is the thing.. my ex is living with me, he has no place. But now it seems like he has one and yesterday he said he would leave and didn't, he slept and then we had sex, he went down on me and then he fucked me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you deal with a ex-boyfriend that wants to come back into your life?

I’ll spare you the unimportant details of the story, but I have been separated from my ex-boyfriend for nearly a year. Our breakup was horrible. We didn’t speak to each other for several months, but one day I wanted...

1975Chocolate

Xper 6 Age: 30

Am I wrong to be mad at his reasons for cheating?

3 months ago I started re-dating an ex I dated 3 years ago from HS. We’ve been BFF’s for 5 years, between that time he got himself a bby momma. They were on & off for 2yrs. By the time we started talking they were done....

Anonymous

(25-29)

To take him back or not?

Ok so my ex and I broke up and he completely lost his mind in the process because it was hard losing me, we have been broken up for 3 months and have started talking again. We dated for 5 years I just know my friends and...

Olivia122yahoo

Xper 3 Age: 32

I may get back with an ex?

Okay so here's the story, we dated almost three months ago and since we broken up we have barley talked. Our realtionship lasted for three months during the time until he decided to end things. During our realtionship it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Attempting to reconcile with commitment-phobic ex. What are my chances of success and what advice should I keep in mind?

Hi good people. I just broke up with a guy who I had been talking to for almost a year (10 months). When I say we were talking, I mean we started out with the understanding that we had amazing chemistry and connection,...

M1989

Xper 2 Age: 36

Ex broke up with me, but still hasn't moved out after 2 months. Does he want to be together or not?

So I've got a bit of a dilemma on my hands, and at this point I truly don't know what's happening. A little background information.. I'm 27, my ex boyfriend is 25. For the first year and a half of our relationship things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Affairs, F*** Buddies, Potential Boyfriend?

The same cashier (Jay) always worked and I wanted him. He would take breaks and we would talk about our toxic relationships. I stopped going to that store just to avoid cheating. Months passed and I was sitting on my back...

lackconscience1116

Xper 5 Age: 43

Guy's Behavior

Ex boyfriend still lives here after he broke up with me 2 months ago. Does he want out or not?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Ex is Entitled and Does Whatever He Wants?

The separation between us is super fresh - not even 3 months and he already moves onto a new relationship after 11 years together. It was a mentally abusive relationship where I did everything for him and it was never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do?

Why would my ex talk bad about me to his girlfriend and other people, yes, our relationship was toxic but shouldn’t he be mature enough to keep it behind. I haven’t talked behind his back at all ever since we have broken up?

RiyanM

Xper 5 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Was I being too clingy or was it something else?

Long ago my crush started ignoring me out of the blue. He was avoiding eye contact with me and he wouldn't talk to me. The very next day was the same behavior. He saw me and I saw him he hid from me. He treats me like im...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex just married just 6 months after broke up with me with a girl he knew only for 5 months. What just happened?

I had been in a toxic relationship with a guy for more than 2 years. It ended because he told me he is divorced with 2 kids in a 10 years of unhappy marriage (well that's what he said). I have no idea that he still...

Honeybee13sweet

Xper 3 Age: 36

Should I ask my ex to take me back?

This is going to be long. I may get made fun of, but I want to tell the full story so you can give the most accurate advice. My ex & I started dating after about a year of knowing each other. He was always asking me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex-Boyfriend abruptly ended relationship and now is telling people he misses me?

I’m a senior in college. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago after dating for 2 years. The relationship was a good one, not tons of fighting. About 2 weeks before we broke up, he began to seem distant. He told me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

IS IT TOO LATE?

He is 25 and this is his first relationship ever. I'm 23, and my previous relationship was very toxic. My ex was emotionally and physically abusive. He lied to me a lot, very manipulative, and cheated on me. It made me...

maya01

Xper 3 Age: 30

Match just for Sex or for more?

H-N-A

Xper 4 Age: 33

I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German. Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25. After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.

I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German.
Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25.
After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.
Met a guy there. He’s 21, Capricorn, Business Student, French/German.
He loves football, guitar, chess and karate.

Had first date at his place for three days by the end of April 2019.
We smoked & had such a great chemistry so we had Sex the first night. He was amazed by the Intensity. Probably because I am more experienced than him, what made it even more enjoyable for me.

The day after, we had casual conversations and he mentioned his “Belgian Girl” he fell in love with. & showed me his ex girlfriends on insta (Was that a strategy?) >stroked my ego and made me fall for him!

Haven’t chatted for a week after our date, then I initiated contact & since then we chat or have phone calls regularly.

He works with his boss on their startup in Africa until January 2020. Because I’m a Graphic Designer I started working for them what actually made up 90% of the contact and conversations.
He also offered me to rent his apartment while he isn’t here. So I moved in July 2019.
He visited me here for a week, because he had to repeat an exam. (I wasn’t the reason for his visit)
He brought me a souvenir bracelet (does it have a meaning?)

Got to know his roommate & she said he was “looking for a relationship but is a player and into taken girls.” His friends like me by the way.
When he and I chat, we never talk about sex. We actually became good friends and he trusts me (after this short time?)
He invited me to join him & his best friend to Africa in January (wouldn’t do that if he’s just into sex?)

Temporarily he’s in Hamburg (550 km away from my location) for three months before he goes back to Africa. He updated his Tinder profile. (Because I’m too far & he‘s too lazy?)
He has to pass by for three days by the end of December 2019, in order to repeat another exam.
He’ll move to France by June 2020 for 2 years.

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