Search Results: jealous of what he could have been thinking

Roomate declined my request to follow him on Insta?

So I was living with my sister her husband and her husbands cousin for over a year and me and the cousin because very close to the point we hooked up a couple times. unfortunately he had a girlfriend overseas whom he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I can't understand him? do you think we can get back toghether? what should I do? how can I be a less ''boring ''gf?

ok so i used to date a guy for almost 2&a half years the last months of our relathionship we had a long distance relathionship so it didn't go well. I was here REALLY busy with studying and he had to go to college im 18...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is this guy with a girlfriend jealous?

There's this guy I work with who has always been super friendly and hilarious. Let's call him Brian. I have been getting closer to him as we've worked together, but I've always thought of him as a good friend because he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Friends with benefits don't kiss?

I have been seeing a guy for a few months. The sex is great. The only problem is that he does not want to kiss nor go down on me (but expects me to go down on him all the time because he likes it). We hang out most days...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Is she seeking for attention again?

Ganna make this short in points -met her six months ago - told her I liked her months ago - she didn't reply instead she became really obsessed with messaging me about her day and asking me to go out alone after...

Weatherman4real

Xper 4 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Should you tell people about your mental illness? I have anxiety?

tired_girl_

Xper 6 Age: 30

BACKGROUND: No one except my immediate family and best friend knows that I have generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). It's something I'm really embarrassed about and have been dealing

BACKGROUND:
No one except my immediate family and best friend knows that I have generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). It's something I'm really embarrassed about and have been dealing with since my early teens, privately. It's not social anxiety, so I get "triggered" over the most random things and thus is hard to avoid. Also, it comes and goes so I do well for a couple months till it goes bad again.

There's not many people out there I trust. In fact, I've never even told about it to people I had been dating. Unfortunately it always led to me not want to explain certain things, and them thinking I'm insane for reacting a certain way or not wanting to talk about certain (very simple) things.

MY ACTUAL QUESTION:
There's this guy friend of mine who I do trust immensely and I tell him a lot. We talk often and he's in love with me. We end up getting on stupid fights that many times I'm aware only happen or get bad because of how anxious (and therefore defensive and offensive to protect myself) I get. Last night I questioned him for saying something really sexual, and when he asked me if he wanted me to stop and if so why am I jealous of other girls, I ended up hyperventilating a lot and not making any sense. Then he got upset at me for just saying "bye" instead of a 'better' goodnight and I flipped so bad I left my phone and him talking to himself. I regret it immensely, I know I was irrational. But at times like that I literally can't bring myself to think properly and not freak out over nonsense.

I really wanna tell him, but I'm not really sure how to go about it. I'm a pretty down to Earth person normally and I don't want this to be a big deal and for him to look at me differently. If he were to walk on eggshells because of this I'd be devastated. I also don't want him to think I'm only telling him this to excuse some of my behavior. But at the same time, if we were to get in a relationship it's better if he knew? I don't know. What are your thoughts?
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Relationships

I have feelings for a guy and no matter how hard I try, they won't go away and I can't leave him alone. What to do?

I developed these feelings for a superior who I trained under. Things started to get rather serious. However, back then he was seperated from his wife, with whom he has a child. After we talked for a while he decided to...

Merakieyes

Xper 2 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

He said he was a looser, not a real man, only brings negatives to the relationship, why did he break up with me?

My boyfriend (age 48) broke up with me after we dated for over three years. The entire time we have dated he has referred to himself as a loser, a failure, not a real man (due to erectile dysfunction that we have tried...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me or not like me?

2 months so i started to talk to a girl in class and from the day i started to talk to her till today she has been staring at me. she found out i like her recently and stopped talking to me and talks to the boy that sits...

Xavier090

Xper 4 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

What does my friend with benefit want?

I've just started seeing this guy that I had a crush on for a while. He's the type of guy that comes across as quite cocky and seemed quite experienced with the ladies. I liked him, was very attracted to him, but I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

So confused! What does my friend with benefit really want?

jinglybeads

Xper 6 Age: 36

Other

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Anonymous

(30-35)

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Relationships

Help me I'm obsessed with his ex?

We are dating for 9 months now. This girl and him are living in the same complex in summers for almost 10 years. When we met, 3 years ago, they were having their first week as a couple. In school trip for 3 weeks, we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Whats a good way to show im ready to change for my ex?

Basically my ex and i were dating for one year. We always had our arguments, but worked it out. I got pregnant in January, and lost the baby shortly after. We were planning on being parents. Since i lost my job, and fell...

Jadedjade4

Xper 4 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Is he leading me on?

so this guy is really close w his female friend. he calls her bae, wifey, tells her he loves her, says he wishes he was with her when they aren't together and etc. he basically has a bf/gf relationship with her except for...

oiiiiiiiiii

Xper 4 Age: 31

Relationships

Would u date him if you were me? PLEASE HELP?

_xxmiaxx_

Xper 4 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Do I date this guy?

_xxmiaxx_

Xper 4 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Why do I feel this way?

I'm usually a very positive person but here recently I've become a lot more depressed and it all started when all the people my age in my town started getting married. I'm not sure if it's because I'm jealous or if it's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

I think I'm falling for my best friend?

So I met a girl when a came to college last year and we hit it off pretty well. We soon became best friends and we're practically the same person, there has just never been that spark. Last week we went to a club and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he not ask me out?

So I've been talking to this guy from my town for almost 2 months now, we met on tinder and everything has been great, we speak every day through whatsapp and snapchat and he's told me about his life and that he's still...

Anonymous

(30-35)