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So over a year ago, I was beginning to talk to someone I met from online. We had a good convo on the phone before meeting up. When we met in person, we discussed tentatively meeting up the next day to go for breakfast. He mentioned that he would reach out tomorrow to schedule plans. The next day comes and I don’t hear from him until the evening (can’t remember if it was the evening or the following day). I gave him the cold shoulder because he pretty much stood me up. I told him why I was perturbed with him and he did not see an issue. He mentioned that he got called into work unexpectedly and had a busy day. We talked on the phone and I mentioned that I would consider wanting to talk to him again. He follows up the next day to check on me and I ghosted him.

My point is: I don’t care how busy you are. If you care to see someone, you would tell them in advance that you’re busy and will reschedule. It’s just a lack of consideration on his behalf.

If you choose to engage in sexual activity with a man you barely even know its not his problem. You are the woman, it is your body, you are to be responsible, have respect and standards for yourself. Just because you have sex with him does not mean he owes you a text, a phone call, a meal, a wedding ring, a relationship, a "girlfriend title "or anything else of that nature. If you dont lay any expectations nor your standards out men dont have a foundation to work off of but the simple fact that well,"maybe she just wants a good time🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️?" Have some respect for your selves. You know who you are and you constantly post about well ,"oh this guy i met online wanted me to do this and that online sexually." Then have the nerve to make another post stating," do you think a long distance relationship will work." . There is no relationship it is sex and that's it. If he hasn't discussed plans for you two to meet, you meeting his fam and friends, or you moving where he is and him Visaversa , guess what? You have no relationship.

So over a year ago, I was beginning to talk to someone I met from online. We had a good convo on the phone before meeting up. When we met in person, we discussed tentatively meeting up the next day to go for breakfast. He mentioned that he would reach out tomorrow to schedule plans. The next day comes and I don’t hear from him until the evening (can’t remember if it was the evening or the following day). I gave him the cold shoulder because he pretty much stood me up. I told him why I was perturbed with him and he did not see an issue. He mentioned that he got called into work unexpectedly and had a busy day. We talked on the phone and I mentioned that I would consider wanting to talk to him again. He follows up the next day to check on me and I ghosted him.