Search Results: she's into me now

Is my girlfriend not taking our relationship seriously?

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. We've lived together for a little over a year. We are in our early twenties, I'm 2.5 years older than her. Coincidentally we are both still in school, however it looks like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I break up with her or shouldn't i?

Well here's the story me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 and half months and yesterday were talking about how I don't believe I'm the first guy to make her cum. So anyways were talking about that then...

kushman_204

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Does anyone else suffer from sleep paralysis? What's the most scary experiance?

Its so terrifying... but when you look into it , it is actually really interesting and people have some really werid experiances with it... I'm really into dreams and stuff that happens while your asleep, and while I go...

Charz_Hoffman

Xper 3 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Does she still love me? Can this get better?

So There's this Girl. We dated for about a year, and then Going into Senior year of High school, She sort of said she didn't want to be together right now anymore. I'm not entirely sure what the reasoning was, but I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Am I wrong for leaving her? You guys tells me if I'm wrong about this.

Okay, so brief explanation. Been dating a 26 year old girl for the past 2 years, I'm 24, I meet her when I was 21 turning 22. So, last weekend I decided I wanted to go see my buddies, Because I Haven't seen them in I...

mshaker

Explorer Age: 40

Relationships

What's wrong with him? Is he a nice guy?

There is a guy whom I like a lot, and he seems to like me too. But since one month, there has been a cold war between us. We used to be good friends earlier, and he used to act in a friendly way with me. Sometimes he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do you think I should confront her or should I leave it?

lately I have been having trouble with someone who is a member of my family. I never trusted her, there was always something in the back of mind telling me not to trust her and I was proven right. we are similar to a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What to do here with this girl?

so I met this great girl named liz that my friend introduced to me one night out. I wasn't really expecting much but I thought she was cute and the group we were with got a long great with one another. so we always...

muzakman23

Xper 6 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Did a guy who once seemed interested in me play me?

I met a guy a few months ago. He came to my place a couple of times, and eventually we told each other that we liked each other. I'm 19 and never had sex or a boyfriend, so I thought I'd try to pursue something with him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

My humor is apparently harsh and hurtful. I feel bad.

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

Well, this guy I always ask questions about..who is a friend I am barely handling with care according to how much he hates me now, is made at me for pointing out a slight fault...just from my opinion...

Well what happened was...I was hanging out with a bunch of friends today (including him), and we started talking about Valentine's day...and what everyone did with their boyfriends and girlfriends..of course I am single as always..and yesterday I was stuck home due to the fact I was sick with a 101 fever. Anyways, we got far into the convo, and he mentioned he had a girlfriend..I mean I just literally found out so I of course asked him why don't I know of this when I see him everyday..and tell him about of personal crap..anyway he said he likes his relationships closed...and he has been with her for 3 weeks...well I was happy for him..until he told me that he didn't/wasn't doing anything "special" for her on Valentine's day...So, I got into an argument with him..me and a couple of my friends told him to stfu and gtfowtbs..because even if it is only 3 weeks and she lives far from him..he should at least try to make a date or something...it is a day created for some type of appreciation for the ones he likes/loves...he clearly told me that his girlfriend wasn't needy and didn't care for anything...and he said if she didn't want anything he wasn't gonna do what she didn't want. Which is fine, but he didn't step out of the "usual" ..he treats her like a pen pal...I told him to at least make a date with her since he hasn't seen his so called girlfriend in 2 weeks. He told me he will do it when he feels like it..it is fine...I jokingly told him..."you better put in effort before she ups and dumps your far away ass for another dude..., I give it one or 2 more weeks." He turned red and got so mad ...didn't say anything to me for the rest of the day...

Honestly, I shouldn't care about his gf..but I wanted to encourage for effort..I know I don't know this girl and I don't know how she acts..but I know every girl that age who goes out with a guy wants a little bit of appreciation..especially from the guy she calls her boyfriend..he just plan treats her so "blah"...he said he calls her everyday..so what? he said it is only 3 weeks into a relationship..but the met only once since then..he lives away from her..but it is only like a 30 minute drive..I told him if this continues..they will breakup..there is really nothing going on..it is like a bother and sister thing..I have seen this happen too many times before.

(sorry I wrote so much, I'm mad he is offended..I need him in my life...without his help I will not succeed. He is like a brother in a way to me...)

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

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Flirting

Major mixed signals. Any help please?

I know it is long but please try to read it all. The only questions are at the end so just take a couple min and read it if you can :) Last semester I started talking to this girl in my class. We hit it off REALLY well....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

I used to be intimidating to people and more physically attractive...

After gaining weight and looking sh*tty these days (stress, depression, lack of effort into my outfit), I have noticed a remarkable difference in how others treat me, and more specifically how approachable I am to others....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How can I start my life over again?

I was an ace student, I had a best friend and everything was good! Even though I was not that popular, I was still happy. But ever since I started college, my life started to fall apart, piece by piece. My best friend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Have you ever been prepared to give someone a very helpful answer to find out they blocked you?

Have you ever began to answer an question, pulling out all of your previous and present knowledge on the topic, putting so much effort into giving this person help and soothing their worries and problems; only to find out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Is there something wrong with me for feeling this way??

OK, so I've been in a few long term relationships, and I've done the single thing too and just played the field. I've always been a gentleman, I've always been very good to the women I've dated, and I've generally been a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

She ended it after a month, but now says she misses me, wants to meet and talk.

So quick summary: She is in therapy for depression but nearing the end. She had a sh*tty childhood due to her parents When we started dated she only just got (1 month) out of a 1,5 year relationship We dated for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I hold onto him? Please help...

Hey...so, I'm really hurting right now, and I need some help...basically, I fell in love with this guy at some point last year. We met last fall (like, fall of 2010). And so we got to know each other a bit, bonded over...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Seeing my ex after no contact for 2 months, what do I do?

Long story short: He broke up with me after a great 8 month relationship, we were about to fall right into love. Of course I felt like sh*t afterward, and he did it right at the the second week of school, so I had a...

Lovely-Eyes

Xper 5 Age: 36

Dating

The first call and first date to a girl (shes my ex-colleague). What are your suggestions?

As per subject, I'm trying to make a call tonight to a girl who attracts me. Background story: She's 25, I'm 33. We used to be colleague from the ex-company that we worked in 2-3 years ago. We did not have any...

vessout

Xper 4 Age: 47

Relationships

My friend's being a sh*tty friend. To confront or not to confront?

Me and this girl basically spent all our time together our first semester of college. Sort of dumb--I know I should've spent more time making other friends, but... well, that's in the past. Anyway, she started seeing...

Anonymous

(30-35)