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Everytime when a guy that I consider as friend suddenly has the will to turn our friendship to something more-than-friends, I feel disgusted even by thinking of it. Of course, I've had crushes on many people, but these never last for more than a week. And some times, the people I had a crush on may eventually want me to be his girlfriend, but things never worked out since I knew the crush was gone. And knowing about there are some guys that I do not have feelings with have the feelings and expect more for me makes me really uncomfortable.

I only have one crush that lasted. Let's call him T. He was the guy sitting behind me in 6th grade.

He was the popular kid and a lot of girls liked to hang around him. I always wanted to be one of those girls, however, I had to make myself believe that he hated me cuz he never looked at me in the eyes and avoided all conversations with me. I thought we could be close cuz our seats were so close, but nah...
I've only learnt that he really liked me till I've moved to another country a year later. He told me he was just too shy and that was why he was avoiding me.. He felt relaxed and comfortable with all the other girls, but stutters everytime he tried to talk with me.
We've made overseas phone calls a lot and chated with each other and I knew that he always had something for me, until high school.
For the second time, he started to avoid me, but for the completely different reason.
At first, there was a girl added my facebook. I had no idea who she was but accepted the request because I saw that she and T go to the same high school and I later found out that she was his girlfriend. Long story short. Although T moved on, I did not blame him for anything since it has been so many years.

I highly suspect that i still have a thing for him even though it has been six years otherwise i should've moved on. My endless feelings for T may be an illusion, but not being able to like other guys is really a problem. Can anybody help me?

Hey there !

So last week I've been to this party where I knew one guy. Turns out the other guys were from the same faculty. One of them added me some days before that one facebook.

Behavior :
- he'd always let me win at drinking games or was helping me
- spent half of the night dancing with me and at other bars
- slept together (as in just SLEEP) on the couch holding me
- sent a message the day after and a few days after that

BUT he doesn't seem to answer a lot and doesn't seem that interested through messages and snapchat

What the hell does that mean?

thank youuu. (first time im interested in someone in that way since my last relationship)

This guy has been flirting with me that I've known for a couple years, I used to have a big crush on him and stuff but we lost contact for a couple years and then we bumped into each other a couple months ago and he started flirting with me pretty hard and I started flirting back.

It got pretty heavy, borderline sexting, but I recently went to add him on Facebook when I discovered that not only does he have a girlfriend but he has a three month old daughter with this girl! I told him off and said I wouldn't have any part in him cheating on his girlfriend and tried to just let it go from there.

But it's really bothering me that he's doing this to this unsuspecting woman. I've looked at her Facebook too and she posts a lot of stuff about how much she's in love with him and how they have the perfect family and I'm almost positive that he's not going to stop trying to cheat on her with other women just because I told him off and I think to myself that if I was in this girl's situation I'd want someone to tell me.

But I'm worried about telling his girlfriend because in the past I've tried to tell girls that they're boyfriends are trying to cheat on them with me, even sent screenshots and have girls play naive and choose not to believe me. So would it be worth the risk to tell her and make him hate me when it may not make any of this stop? Or if a stranger told you they're signifcant other was trying to cheat on you would you believe them?

Give some details in the comments but I'll leave it as a poll.

So I liked this really shy guy in school, he loves basketball and only hangs out with his group of guy friends everywhere he goes.
So I added him on fb, and chatted with him. We chatted for nearly a month now, and he seemed interested. Considering he's very inexperienced with girls, so I didn't really expect a lot from him. But yesterday, at 1 am he posted on facebook,

"I have many girls chasing me, but I am gay and not interested. How do i tell them, what should I do?"

And he deleted the post almost immediately. Is this a joke or for real?