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We split in May. He refused to even talk to me and to this day he still has no time for me. Talking to him is like drawing blood from a stone to be honest.

So yeah; he quite clearly hates me, right?

Yet the latest girl he seems to be him to has big dark eyes, dark hair and pale skin like me. Same height. Petite and slim. She also has a 6 year old kid with the same name that my ex and I wanted to call our first kid. She also happens to have the exact same job as me.

The only difference is that she's a few years older with tattoos and piercings. She also seems to be kinda similar in nature to me as well? But with a little more attitude about her. Only real difference is that I'd say she has a prettier face than me.

I just wonder though, why on earth would my ex go for someone similar to me... when he evidently hates me so much?

While I was at the grocery store I met a boy. At first sight I thought he was 19 so I was totally fine with giving him my number. We texted and talked over the phone for a few days when he told me that he's 23 years old, has an ex-fiance, and a daughter. He asked if his kid was a deal breaker and I stupidly said no. It took me 2 days to finally say hey I'm not 23. He said "you're like 17 huh?" And I said yes. But I'm really 15. He said that he'd still want to be with me because of my personality and how close we are now, because 17 is a good age. I really like him but he's 8 years older than me. I don't know what I should do. I really like him, he's so sweet and understanding. He's really mature and I like that in guys. I'm scared because I don't want to get pregnant or anything. but he's an amazing guy. He's like the male version of me. My mom met him too. She jokes around and says he's a murderer, she doesn't want him and I do date but she's fine with it. My little brother git furious cuz he doesn't Wana see me with anyone, especially a guy who's 8 years older than me. I'm still talking to him but I don't know what to do. My mom is fine with him 100% cuz he's a gentleman toward me. Should I tell him my real age? Or tell him to get lost?

Ok so for the next two weeks I will be taking care of a young lady. I live in an apt just me and my daughter. Anyways this girl is 26 years old but oh my god this girl has been through so much hell in life, when I heard her story I sobbed!!! She was pimped out by her ex husband and he beat her so badly and knocked her teeth out. All she knows is prostitution and being used by men. Right now she's 8 months pregnant, has a history of drug abuse but has been clean for a year. She has psychosis, which I do too except I'm medicated. Her father died and her mother wants nothing to do with her, she has no other family. She's scared for her and her baby's life and she's been talking to my mom my mom and I agreed to let me take care of her until she gets on her feet. But I'm so scared of what she's going to go through during post partum. I didn't have nearly as rough of a life like he had and my post partum depression was bad!!! I've seen pictures of this girl and my heart broke you can tell she's lost, sad and heartbroken you can see it in her eyes. I understand her because we have a lot in common and she's excited about her stay here. But I was thinking maybe I should move her in here with me to take care of her even after she has the baby. Her previous baby died. And her first baby was taken by her scum bag ex husband. I want to save her and her baby and she wants the help! I'm also going to get her in to see my psychiatrist immediately. Should I move her in with me?

The ones I am friends with I gave taken it upon myself to friend request and introduce myself and become FB friends with. My problem is suddenly he is commenting to pictures of beautiful women who he has not talked to since school. We are 50 years old. And I know he has private messaged them telling them how beautiful and smart they are and how he wanted them to know he was thinking about them. We had a problem with this issue over a year ago. He would get a message from an ex once a month or so and would tell me if I asked that he doesn't like to hurt anyone feelings and it was just Hi how are you doing chit chat. One eveneing we were laying in bed looking at facebook and he handed me his phone to read something and when I went scroll the page changed and it was his his pm list and I saw that she had messaged him "I miss you too". I was crushed because that was not chit chat. I had told him from the begining I did not like him talking to him. Long back story but she only had a relationship with him for money. Then ran of and married her exfiance two weeks after sleeping with him. And was continually telling him she made a mistake and she loved him when he was starting to have a relationship with me. That night things blew up and there was a lot if silence and tears from me after our screaming match. He told me when I moved up he had no secrets from me he was an open book. Left his facebook signed in and gave me his passwords for online. Ibread the messages that were not deleted. Ther were only 3. She said ahe was thinking about him a lot. He replied he was thinking about her too and he "I miss my squishy". To which she replied I miss you too. My heart was crushed we talked at length on the third day. He said he meant he missed the people he had worked with. He also deleted her and blocked her from his phone. He wanted to delete his facebook because he didn't want me telling him who he can and cannot talk too. I told him that was not my intention and ibdid not want