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Girls are inherently jealous and possessive, right? ... yes, I am.

If I loved someone, and I think we are exclusive, then I would be possessive and jealous, not in a bad smothering way, but just like in a someone is trying to steal something from me way is all, if that were happening... I'm just being honest.

So, I was recently watching a true crime show about a beautiful teenage girl that stabbed her equally gorgeous female rival to death in front of a whole group of people when she saw her rival had posted a picture of her (their) hot, and popular, boyfriend on social media hugging on her.

What she didn't know, was that the whole time the boyfriend was telling both of them independently, that they were his exclusive girlfriend, and neither one of them knew about the other one until the social media post was seen.

The girl who stabbed her should receive the full extent of punishment by the law and should never have done it. I don't think anyone would argue with that.

BUT HERE'S WHAT GETS ME! ... Now the "innocent" boyfriend walks away scott free as if nothing ever happened and like he had nothing whatsoever to do with it!!! ... when he is the one who set all of this up - playing two girls against each other! ... what am I missing?

... AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT SEES SOMETHING WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?

Please take the survey and/or give us your opinion with a reply! This one really upset me!

Like they hug you constantly and grab you even from behind. They grab both your hands and hold them. They get right in your face with their face or stick their feet in your face. Girls that grab your head and put it in their boobs. They want to cuddle and sleep in bed together.

My friends in question were drunk (I was not) and I have known them since childhood. After not seeing them for a long time I felt very uncomfortable when they acted like this. I’m curious how other women feel about that type of close-friendship and physical touch. I have had a lot of female friends act this way with me, even one’s with boyfriends. They seem to have nothing but good intentions, and I play along with it but often end up feeling a little violated or disrespected. It seems like they think that’s how to express love with friends, but I feel like I want to reserve that type of touch/closeness for the person I’m in a romantic relationship with only.

I am setting boundaries and working on speaking up when I feel uncomfortable. I feel like my friends would like me more if I was more touchy-feeley but somehow it always feels too sexual to me. I sometimes worry that my girlfriends are into me in a romantic/sexual way. Thoughts?

Okay, so I'm still in high school and I will change as I get older. But it makes me made that my junior high sister has already lost her virginity and I haven't had a boyfriend. And I understand it's probably cause I'm bigger and not as athletic. But I don't understand. I know they used her, they ended up hurting her in the long run. And I've tried to get a boyfriend so many times but most of the guys ask for nudes. I want to understand with having a girlfriend who will be your best friend. Who is funny and always herself. And it shouldn't matter what they look like. Should it?

Use anonymous if you like and tell us why you are having an affair.

Is it lust, is it a bad relationship, is it abuse causing you to do it, is it because the deep emotional connection that you once had is gone, is it better sex?

Are you receiving the emotional connection you want if you are female, or if you are male, is it just the sex that you are getting out of it that you feel that you have to have?

Do you know anyone that has been involved in an affair? ... why did they do it?

I hate to admit it, but I have a girlfriend that has affairs behind her boyfriend's back with both guys and bi or lesbian girls. I hate that she does that and have told her that she is wrong to do this to her boyfriend. I think he knows she is doing it, but just tries to ignore it. I can not figure it out.

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