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Beyond Just Being Her 10 - Questions Answered Part 1

I did not expect the response I got from my last take in the amount of questions I received. With this take, I’m going to try address the most prevalent question. How, do you find and keep the girl? This is obviously a...

Knighted2170

Yoda Age: 55

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Dating

Why would a guy do this?

I've been in love with this guy for a few years. We've been friends since teenage and it turned to a friend with benefits relationship for the past 6 years. We have been through a lot of drama over the years. Over the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should I re-add him on Snapchat?

we had a fling, then he said he didn’t want us to be exclusive, but ultimately got jealous when I was with one of my guy friends and unadded me. When I asked him, he said everyone was toxic and he needs a break from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Guy's Behavior

How can I tell if he’s waiting for me to make a move or if he’s losing interest?

The guy in question is one I’ve been good friends with for a little less than six months now, who I’ll reference as T. We’ve been on two co-ed sports teams together and see each other a lot. I’ve liked T for somewhere...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Does my ex want me back?

So I think my ex may want me back. Please guys let me know if I’m spot on , or looking to deep into it. So me and my ex share a child together. We been broken up for 3 years... he had his relationships on the side. I had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I think my ex may want me back. Please guys let me know if I’m spot on , or looking to deep into it. So me and my ex share a child together. We been broken up for 3 years... he had

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Relationships

Do you think I still have residual feelings for her?

So I’ve heard she’s coming after 5 years of not seeing her. I met her 8 years ago, we had this fling, she invited me to her Prom, we shared some really intense moments... I really thought we had something worth sharing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Fixing a ruined friendship with someone whom I tried to date - advice?

We had a brief fling and it ended, after being kind of terrible. I didn't handle the end of it in the best way. Kind of begged her to come back a couple time. We kind of stopped talking for a week or so but things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How can I get into a relationship with somebody w/o doing the hookup/f*ckboy thing first (because I have ALWAYS gotten friend-zoned if I don't)?

Alright I'll start this off as I'm a genuine nice guy, not a "fake" beta nice guy. I'll treat a woman with real respect unless she gives me reason not too. If she's a bitch or using me I'll call her out on it, say "so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I hit up my ex for sex?

So my ex broke up with me 3 days before I left for college back in August and we’ve dated for almost 2 years. He said I wasn’t ready for a relationship. In a way I wasn’t because I was still carrying pain from a past...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

In what way is bringing a new fling over to an old flings apartment without warning and trying to get him to hang out NOT crossing a line?

This happened to me two nights ago. She also tried to get me to come out of my room (it was a bit awkward) to hang out with them. That kind of pissed me off because of how oblivious it seemed, and I got a bit upset...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

In what way is bringing you new fling over to your old fling's apartment without warning and trying to get him to hang out NOT crossing a line?

Anonymous

(25-29)

This happened to me two nights ago. She also tried to get me to come out of my room (it was a bit awkward) to hang out with them. That kind of pissed me off because of how

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Guy's Behavior

What did he mean by, “I want you”?

Yes... I initially thought he desired me physically since this text of “I want you” was sent at 1:30am. As I explained that I am lookig for something more serious, he said he knew that and I said “then? I’m not trying to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Friend I recently had a fling with brought her new guy to my apartment to eat with my roommates - and its making me uncomfortable - should I say so?

I had a fling with this girl, but it ended when we had an argument. I went to far - she said she lost feelings after that. Anyways that was about 4-ish weeks ago. The other night we were talking in person and she...

bcall9747

Xper 6 Age: 29

Other

Why won't my fling leave me alone?

My fling said horrible things about me being a virgin and a good girl. I cut him off. He has been trying to make me jealous of his new girlfriend but IDC. I'm on my way to nursing school... I legit want him to leave me...

WelcomeToTheParty

Xper 2 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Could he be into me? Or is it just a hookup?

This guy and I had a fling last summer (didn't have sex, made out a couple times and talked via snapchat). We never talk on social media anymore. But every time we see each other at the bar, it's like a magnet pulls us...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is my hookup catching feelings? How should I go about this?

sunnydays101

Xper 4 Age: 32

Flirting

Is my hookup catching feelings? Or is he just getting comfortable?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Girl I had a fling with is about to date someone new. I want to be friends with her, but I still have feelings. Should I wait a bit longer?

I'm 21 and she's like the first girl I've ever had real feelings for (not in anyway the first that I've hooked up with or gone out with). ended poorly about four weeks ago, but it seems like she's not mad at me for being...

bcall9747

Xper 6 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Is he into me? Should I make a move?

So I've seen this guy around a few times, we had a fling last summer (didn't have sex, made out a couple times and talked via snapchat). We never talk on social media anymore. But every time we see each other at the bar,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys if you were really attracted to one of your friends & knew she would never sleep with u because of diff. values, would you stop being friends?

I had a guy friend who I've know for a little over a month. Our personal values are very different. We are both the same age. He wants to have fun and experience stuff for 5/6 years then get married. And I on the other...

Anonymous

(30-35)