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I never gave a shit about clubs all throughout elementary, middle, and high school... however, in my first year of community college, I decided to join a choir club. They say it's an easy way to bond and make friends, so why not?

Upon joining, I very easily ended up hitting it off with a very beautiful blonde girl. You'd think she'd be taken, but though she was very attractive, she was a bit too sarcastic, deadpan, and surreal for most people's liking. She was polite but didn't act overly cheerful or anything, and often made dark jokes and swore a lot.

I found this absolutely hilarious though. And she began to smile at me a lot more once she saw I was one of the few people who understands her humor.

As time went on, we hung out more and more, and grew a closer friendship. She wasn't overly affectionate or anything, but often told me I was a cool guy, and that she liked spending time with me.

One day at school, in the hallway our club was located, where we were the only ones, she greeted me as usual, then walked up to me as usual, but unlike usual, just hugged me, her face to my chest, and told me I smelled so good.

I was absolutely shocked. This was a good thing, but I had no idea she liked me in this sort of way. I thought she only wanted to be my friend. I had no idea what to do, so I just stood there, and said, "uh thanks", as she slowly let go of me, and pretended nothing happened a few seconds later.

Then another day, when we were outside chilling, she said that when outside she can't stand wearing pants and only wears shorts, and told me her legs were so smooth and I just had to feel them. I touched her leg lightly, and she was like, "That's it? Come on, actually feel it bro. Like actually sink your hand into my thigh a little. Give me a fucking massage." And so I did, very nervously.

Both instances caught me off guard, as she just acts so casual otherwise.

If she comes onto me though, I'm going for it. She's fucking awesome.

This applies whether you are in a relationship or not in one.

As a side question I'll also ask, do girls recieve more love from guys than guys recieve love from girls? And why would this be or not be? I would additionally like your opinion on this in the comments below as well.
(I asked that because I'd read a comment earlier where a guy calls it a fact of nature that [generally] girls get more attention than what he personally experiences as a guy; because he's a guy. I do recall the old saying that "women are the fairer sex", and so I do think there is large scale truth to the person's comment.)

To the main question, Western society is becoming more consumeristic, atomized and individualistic by the day, and so the concerns of others around us seem to get muted more and more. Hence, our lonliness epidemic is already more deadly than obesity and still increasing.

So therefore, we must be amongst growing demographics of people with either or both emotional and physical touch deprivation. In the title question I'd used the word "love" to address either both of these at once. But in the polls I will use "Love" as it pertains to specific conditions of physical and emotional touch.

I suspect that guys will make up most of the overall "deprived" demographic in the poll, because I've heard many experiences and perspectives similar to the comment I mentioned earlier along with suicide rates. Though with the attempted suicide rates in the West I'm certain that women experience emotional and physical touch deprivation to a similarly great degree in ways too.

But with that said, would you say that you are you loved, or deprived of love?