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(Really feel like venting since I have no one else to vent to so here goes)
My boyfriend wants to beat my ex up & I’m pretty scared & worried because 1. I don’t want him getting expelled 2. He’s broken his knuckle for me before, I don’t want him hurt again & 3. Although he’s my ex I don’t want him getting beat up over me

The reason why he wants to kick his ass is because my ex tried talking to me again (haven’t talked in a year) he apologized to me, I accepted it, then we went on to talking & he started bringing our history back up.. long story short he was talking dirty to me, I let it happen because I was hurt since me & my boyfriend fought the night before and he wanted to break up with me, he wanted to meet up but we never did because then me & my boyfriend made things right. The guilt was eating me up so I told him about it. He was heartbroken & made me show him everything.

It was a one time thing I hadn’t talked to him again, but the other night my ex hit me up again & said he was home alone & wanted me to go over. That’s when I told him I couldn’t do that or ever see him because me & my boyfriend are getting serious. He said “not even once?” I said nope. He said “ouch”, but then told me to hit him up whenever. I‘ve ignored him since

So I told my boyfriend about that because he said if he bothered me again to tell him. He told me he’s always hated him even before we were together, & he knows how much my ex has hurt me but I moved past that.. But last night he told me he was gonna beat his ass & now I can’t stop thinkin about it.. I’m really worried, I told him not to, but knowing him he will, I don’t know...

I started taking a dance class and there's a guy there and we spoke not too much during class other than him asking to go over some of the steps with me and we did and again when I said thanks for not being such a jerk as other people I've worked with in the past about a particular slip up I keep making and he agreed about it. Another day, we were both stretching before class and he made it obvious that he was checking me out when he said "mm hm" while smiling at me and I asked him about it and he said something like "your body..." then I looked at him and then he said that he was going to be dancing with me so he wanted to make sure I was stretched out enough ( or something to that effect... I kind of blocked out as much as I could) (but I keep thinking that maybe he was just goofing around) and then he got next to me and just started asking me some questions about what I like to do for fun and just some general things about me. Then he was rather helpful at dancing (although I'm reluctant to count this because he probably just wanted to make sure that I wouldn't step on his feet) also, he usually placing my hands where they need to be (I'm reluctant to count this since he does this with everybody, but I feel like I was already where they needed to be and he held them longer than nessacary). And there were small things like (I think) I caught him checking me out a couple times and he always asks if I need someone to walk me home (I live down the street from class, but class is over at nighttime) so it's like "are you trying to get a romantic moment with me bro?" But I'm willing to think that he was being nice and would be willing to do it with anybody.

I don't want him to like me/be lusting after me because I don't really want a relationship. I'm worried because the second week of my cycle is coming up and my pheromones will be filling the air and he might really be hot on me during that time! Does he sound like he's interested? Should I be worried?

I really liked one of my guy friends, even though he just saw me as a friend. About four weeks ago, we got into a stupid fight over a misunderstanding. Since then, I stopped looking at him in a crush way, and only see him as kinda of a friend. I've gotten to the point where I don't know if he brings more negativity into my life than positivity. Anyway, I first tried to reach out to him on Friday, though FB messenger and for some reason there was some technical problem and it said that it was sent not delivered. Technical problems happen all the time, so I didn't think too much into it.

Anyway, last night I saw on his IG story that a a cool speaker visited his school. I commented that he was luck and how was it and we had a short brief conversation. I don't know what I should do. Should I just say that there's not bad feelings between us and I just view him as a friend? What should I do?
I don't want to start drama to make him block me either but I want to get things off my chest too.

I would text this:

For some reason my fb isn't working but anyway,
I know we've gotten into arguments in the past, I'm shit at expressing/explaining myself, which makes things worse "but I realized I may have over-invested in our friendship, maybe i'm just to naive." Anyway, it will cool if we could just start fresh? I think it would be chill to stay friends, cause I did value our friendship but I don't want to force you either"

Do you think that's too confrontational? I'm worried he will get offended and just block me... :O
Also, if you vote for either can you please explain your vote -- Thank you!

I really liked one of my guy friends, even though he just saw me as a friend. About four weeks ago, we got into a stupid fight over a misunderstanding. Since then, I stopped looking at him in a crush way, and only see him as kinda of a friend. I've gotten to the point where I don't know if he brings more negativity into my life than positivity. Anyway, I first tried to reach out to him on Friday, though FB messenger and for some reason there was some technical problem and it said that it was sent not delivered. Technical problems happen all the time, so I didn't think too much into it.

Anyway, last night I saw on his IG story that a a cool speaker visited his school. I commented that he was luck and how was it and we had a short brief conversation. I don't know what I should do. Should I just say that there's not bad feelings between us and I just view him as a friend? What should I do?
I don't want to start drama to make him block me either but I want to get things off my chest too.

I would text this:

For some reason my fb isn't working but anyway,
I know we've gotten into arguments in the past, I'm shit at expressing/explaining myself, which makes things worse "but I realized I may have over-invested in our friendship, maybe i'm just to naive." Anyway, it will cool if we could just start fresh? I think it would be chill to stay friends, cause I did value our friendship but I don't want to force you either"

Do you think that's too confrontational? I'm worried he will get offended and just block me... :O