Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Search Results: approaching women in bars
Love at first words...
i have no problems approaching women, that's the easy part. I find it difficult to ask for the number because I get scared of rejection and sound dumb.lame doing so. I'm usually direct tell her I came to talk to her...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What kind of women like to date introverted men?
I'm a very introverted and silent guy. Spend most of my time reading, working out, doing volunteer work or just going to bars, restaurants, theaters or random cultural events around the city I live in. Waiting to have sex...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ladies, do you expect to find your "Mr. Right" amongst your friends
Ladies, do you expect to find your "Mr. Right" amongst your friends *back-story for my question*: I was chatting with a person online about this earlier. I also JUST read a post about whether girls liked to be...
Anonymous
(36-45) A reason to keep trying?
I'm the stereotypical "nice guy" that has defeated every obstacle between me and confidence. From birth till high school I was pushed around, bullied, laughed at, made fun of, joked about, etc.. Rumors were spread about...
ArtistBboy
Guru Age: 36 Guys, where do you usually meet/approach women?
a few question here... at a bar? coffee shop? grocery store? volunteering? gym? other? Why do you not choose the other places? Why do you choose the places you do?
alexajade30
Xper 5 Age: 46 Why do only white women, NOT black women approach me in bars, on the street, in stores, etc.?
At 57,I'm regarded by a lot of the ladies as a boyishly hand- some black lad despite my muscular,beefy build(5'8'',214 lb.,17.5'' biceps amongst my measurements).While of course,I'm ALWAYS after someone's hot...
BlackCowboyBurt1953
Xper 4 Age: 72 Kissed another girl, in a long distance... when to tell?
Hi everyone, I have a problem that I created myself. I'm with my girlfriend since nearly one year, it is for me first really serious relationship plus the thing I think and hope I could spend my life with her, have kids....
StuartT
Xper 5 Age: 40 Do women get very nervous around the man they really like?
The girl that I really like is very shy, she is also very nervous because she has been in abusive relationships in the past. She can't get past her nervousness. I asked her out politely, but she spooked. She won't...
gentlemanattbay
Xper 5 Age: 49 Why are women that are considered overweight attracted to me?
I have absolutely nothing against any person that is overweight...period. I had noticed that the women that are considered overweight tend to try to talk to me much then any other girls. (I got to respect that). I am...
Jtmatt
Xper 5 Age: 38 What's the best way to go about meeting women?
So tonight I went out alone to a bar/club to see if I could meet anyone. I've never done it before, figured no harm could come of it. I really am a nice guy, but I'm very outgoing and fun, yet I don't know how to get a...
anynymoooooose
Xper 5 Age: 39 Guys, does ethnicity play a part in who you chose to approach?
Hi everyone, I was having a conversation with guy friends about how I don't get approached as much at bars. They said it was because I'm Asian and that most Asian girls aren't as likely to go home with someone (or at...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Chase Theory: A Compliment
This article is in response to The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy . Notes about Response: Although my responses to articles are usually sharply critical, this author has actually moved me. This...
jdcpa
Explorer Age: 39 Hey ladies. How would you want a guy to approach you at a bar?
I just turned 21 and I'm just now getting into the bar/club scene. But I always see groups of girls hanging out with other girls or see other guys trying to hit on them. What can make me stand out from the other guys? And...
theshow
Xper 5 Age: 36 LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?!?! Didn't believe in it till now!! :/
OK, well I was a firm believer thinking that love at first sight didn't exist until 2 weeks ago. I met this girl at a local bar on a Wednesday night right around closing time (1:30ish am). I kinda like joking around with...
rjespi954
Xper 5 Age: 40 Cutting the Fat; Making Girlsaskguys.com Even Better
So we all love this website. Anyone over 500 Xper points can admit that. I’ve used it for advice about my own personal life and to create public opinion polls about issues that interest me... but for the most part, I’ve...
Epiphanies
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why did this happen?
My crush was supposed to go to a networking event and he had asked me if I wanted to go with him, so I was excited. Before you knew it, I found out his buddy was going along too. I don't know if he was tagging along or...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does shy guy show potential signs of interest, then not email me after he said he would?
I'm in my 40's, am interested in a shy guy (also in his 40's). We met at a dance venue (we are regulars of a dance community); I see him on average once/wk. I started brief side-bar conversations with him (between...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Found out husband was flirting on boy's trip, how mad should I be?
My husband recently went on a guy's trip for a week. Some of the guys were single, some were married. I knew some of our single friends would be "hitting it up" while they were there and actually asked my husband to...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) "Just be yourself" really is actually a crappy solution for some guys?
I'm 29 year old single guy. I own a small business and really into martial arts on the side. I do alright, not fantastic. However I got enough to pay my bills. I pride myself in being in good shape and adventurous....
Anonymous
(36-45) Interracial relationships?
I come from a predominantly white town in the suburbs. With me being one 1 out of three black kids in a school of 600 most of my friends ended up being white. In addition, my mom is Sicilian which makes me only half...
GruffBalloon
Xper 6 Age: 37 