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Alright for four years we had the "picture perfect relationship" well other than my bad attitude around my house when I got off from work (which lasted ruffly 10-8 months. We started dating when I was 16 and he was 20 his family and my family where very accepting we dated for 3 years before he put a ring on it he'd been excited to help plan the wedding so we did and by we I mean I basically did anything I did try to get help with was like pulling eye teeth with him. Around October he got me pregnant I was 6 weeks when I told him and it wasn't even a time at my choice either he kept on and on the day after his birthday till I finally spilled the beans he was caring and sweet over the whole thing but anytime after that when I tried to get him to see a test he'd hurry from my house or make up excuses. Well finally he had to go out of state due to his little brother having surgery and we'd had an argument the day before he left well while he was gone two days before he came back I lost our baby right at 9 weeks. When he came back I told him asap but he just jumped off to wanting to go on a break. In November I found his old phone and found he'd been cheating for years and with 6 diffrent girls. (And that was before the additude) we talked a month later and I told him what I knew and found out his birth mother also was trying to get him to break up with me and was telling him and his parents I couldn't get pregnant even knowing I have the same disease she has and she's had 4 children. At one point she'd tried threw Facebook to get me to break up with him. Thanks to a couple of his friends where back together but his birth mother keeps butting in our relationship still and his parents hate me and are keeping my dog from me over her lies. I just don't know how to reach him with this I forgave him for what his done and his even aplogized to my family. But his family still hates me for what his lying birth mother did. Can anyone help me with this?