Search Results: couples that break up, get back together

My ex came back for the 4th time... Should I listen to what he has to say again?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex broke up with me on 06/18/17, 3 weeks after we had taken a vacation to Punta Cana to celebrate our 2 yr anniversary. That summer I was a mess and beg him to stayed together but

My ex broke up with me on 06/18/17, 3 weeks after we had taken a vacation to Punta Cana to celebrate our 2 yr anniversary. That summer I was a mess and beg him to stayed together but by mid Aug, I was done and cut connections with him. Little after I hear he is dating another girl and that he isn't doing well. Around Nov, he wants to be friends and starts texting me and talking to me and than completely cuts me off when I confront him about his girlfriend who he kept denying he had. This obviously hurt me I tried to get in contact but I realized he had change his number. Fast forward to 05/21/18 (2 days after what would've been our 3rd year). He calls me on the morning tells me that he wants to talk and be friends. So I decided to meet with him and hear him out to see where things are going. Once again I get wrapped up in his words, he tells me that he broke up with the girl he was dating than because she didn't understand him and that he was still in love with me and that he wanted to see where things could go. Obviously me still very much in love with him gives him a chance but I didn't want to make anything official since I wasn't sure how things were really going because he was leaving to Greece in June and wasn't going to get back until Aug. Well what I expected happened, things were great until a week within in his trip where he just stopped replying to my messages and told me that he didn't want to be in contact anymore. So once again he just completely took me out of his life. I needed him to sign my dogs adoption papers because I was traveling abroad and taking my dog with me, so I contacted him when he got back from Greece (he bought me a dog). After that we saw each other a couple of times and hooked up, I told him I couldn't keep doing this because I wanted to date him. He said that's not what he wanted and completely ignore me, all he said is that he was in contact with his ex. Yesterday he calls me after 2 months, to say sorry & that he can't cut me off.

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Girl's Behavior

When a girl breaks up with a guy (Who was great and never hurt her), she never truly loved him or had feelings for him?

I see a lot of couples around campus and even outside of school, some come from different backgrounds, others go through some hardships and tiny break ups, but usually they are back together and keep going, especially...

3rdSrike

Xper 6 Age: 32

I see a lot of couples around campus and even outside of school, some come from different backgrounds, others go through some hardships and tiny break ups, but usually they are back

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Dating

Is she showing signs of liking me? What should I do in this situation?

she's a really close friend, but I've only known her for a couple months. It was clear we both liked each other back in the summer, before we both went to college. she started dating some guy in October. I hadn't seen her...

Soccerboss123

Xper 4 Age: 26

she's a really close friend, but I've only known her for a couple months. It was clear we both liked each other back in the summer, before we both went to college. she started dating

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Break Up & Divorce

My ex is stalking me?

Okay so I recently got dumped a couple months ago, my ex and I remained friends for a while because we were super close while we were together, we were literally best friends. We dated for 6 months and he later dumped me....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Does he love me or its just sex?

So I guess I'll start from the very beginning. I was with my boyfriend of 5 years until he broke up with me. He dumped me and I was suicidal until 8 months later I met a new guy. We talked then he asked me to be his...

Butterscotchbri

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

Does he love me or he just wants sex?

Butterscotchbri

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

My best friend is dating my ex boyfriend? Do I have a right to be mad?

I am a junior in high school. I broke up with my ex boyfriend about four months ago on bad terms. One of my best friends also dated this guy, but it didn't really mean much because it was a hold-hands-only couple months...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is He Serious About You?

Women often ask questions about their boyfriends, husbands, and prospective love interests: Does he love me? Does he want to marry me? Am I the only woman in his life? Is he serious about our relationship? Should I...

Idonthaveausername

Influencer Age: 31

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Dating

Should I give her the time or walk away?

I've known this girl since late August. About a week after I met her she told me she likes me. Two days later she got back with who is now her ex (again). I was obviously confused and upset. Fyi I stayed friends with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girl told me twice she likes me but isn't ready for a relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Have you ever gotten back together with an ex and had it work long term?

By "long term" I mean at least a couple years after getting back together. I personally have never gotten back with an ex because I don't break up with someone until I know it's never going to work so I don't have any...

CallMeDave

Guru Age: 66

By "long term" I mean at least a couple years after getting back together. I personally have never gotten back with an ex because I don't break up with someone until I know it's

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Relationships

He’s been spending way more time with his friends than me, I feel like his second choice. Has he lost interest in me?

So I feel like he’s taking me for granted. I met my boyfriend 1 year ago at school. He liked me for almost 10 months now. Last year I rejected him but he didn’t give up and eventually I fell for his charms. We were best...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Boyfriend wants to move out of nowhere... is this bad?

I’m 19, and my boyfriend is 20 me and my boyfriend live together and he had a steady job doing floors at a hospital. This upcoming January we were planning on going to college, our plan always was, go to college, work,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Whats your opinion of couples that break up and get back together?

I personally have been one of those couples who were on and off again, but I've learned from experience that getting back together with an ex never works out. But, I'm wondering what you all believe. I'll share my opinion...

violet6

Xper 4 Age: 28

Other

A different perspective

I got back home from a long day at work. It was already dark out and honestly, I was ready for bed. I got into work early and got home late. My job had given me the day off tomorrow. I was going to sleep in tonight. I...

Jjpayne

Editor Age: 42

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Relationships

Guys, What it means when he is responding, but is cold?

Hi, here is my problem - recently i texted my ex - We were couple for 2 years and broke up 2 years ago. There was always insane chemistry between us and even year after break up he wanted to get back together (never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Ex boyfriend still loves on me and acts like my boyfriend?

Maybe its because of the time we were together that it is hard to break the cycle.. We were together for a year and things were rocky for a good majority of the time. When we first met, I became homeless due to a scam...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend has dumped me 4 times. How can I move on from this?

My ex-boyfriend, Drew, has now dumped me four times in the time span of a year and a half (he is 26 and I am 20). I will admit that I messed up very early on into our relationship (I saw my ex, Matty, and I lied to Drew...

liv1524

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Is he into me orrr?

So I met this guy at a ball and we start talking and just hit it off from there he asked for my Snapchat and my Instagram and then that night we were pretty much inseparable we are in a big group of people and we just...

thomashannah

Xper 4 Age: 26

Break Up & Divorce

Will I ever get this girl back?

I have mixed signals when I'm trying to get my ex back. The reason why I broke up with her because I was stupidly followed my friend's advice and took a "break" and I didn't know a break means a break up. I thought it was...

pt14578

Xper 5 Age: 25