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This girl I met online and I are due to go out for a date but she keeps cancelling it thus ignore the idea of it. We go on longer texting-chatting without actually having met up. She seems rude and ignorant at times. I have been trying to ask her about it far too many times and working hard for it like asking about her day in school, life, family and friends. i don't care if she sees me as talkative already. Still it doesn't work out. Our conversations are not bad I mean i get her engaged in talking to me something not many guys would do. You guys think perhaps if I just keep quiet and lead my own life thus ignore her for the time being it would make her realise she has sorta made me give up. And she can be inclined to go out with me then. Does cold shoulder treatment helps? I dont want to keep asking her out to have her ignore the question. Or should I just show I am happy living my own life and chances are she might regret. I can't put it to words but I hope you guys understand where I am coming from. Opinions please :)

a featured article I read here the other day inspired me to ask this question. but before I start I would like to apologize in advance for sounding too vulgar.

OK so as a guy who doesn't want to get involve in any serious relationship right now I kinda finding this "emotional connection" thing a major turn off. I mean this to me sounds like something that could lead to some sort of attachment later on after the sex. and as a human being it kinda sounds illogical to me that someone needs to feel an "emotional connection" with another human being in order for that individual to have sex with that person. let'snot forget that is proven millions of times that both our sex drives (men and women's) function the same exact way so to me this is more reason why I believe a woman could still have sex with a man just for finding him sexually appealing. I even met a lot of women who say that it is indeed unnecesary for women to feel this "emotional connection" in order to let their freaky side out. most of them even when on criticizing these women who say such a thing by calling them bullshitters, hypocrites, fakers, etc. lets not forget how there are a lot of women out there who would have sex for money and favors aka things that dont relate to "emotional connections."

anyways getting to the point i think this "emotional connection" bullshit is just a hoax women nowadays use in order to repress their wild side and not feel like a slut or any other type of guilt from it. but yea, i just want to know, do I have a right to see women who say such a thing as a red flag? or am i being too judgmental?