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Hi, I'm in my mid 20's and she is 20. My ex and I were together for about 5 months. She fell in love with me. She thought I was the perfect guy, we saw each other pretty much every day. Everything was GREAT! Her family loved me, My family loved her. We were perfect for each other.

Then all of a sudden the week before the breakup, she was a bit cold. barely kissed me, barely held my hand. then it happened. We met up at a coffee shop and She dumped me. She cried a lot, and I tried not to show any emotion or reaction. I wanted her to know that I was going to be okay with the breakup. She said she wanted to focus on getting her career going and was scared she wouldn't be able to give me the attention while at school/work. She wanted to stay friends but I said No, it's not a good idea. She also mentioned that she's scared she's going to regret her decision, and she also said she will probably never find another guy like me. I don't think another guy is in the picture because we saw each other every single day.

What I'm thinking is maybe we saw each other too much? I read up on it a lot, and I'm given the advice of doing the "No Contact Rule" for at least a month to kind of get her to miss me and maybe regret her decision to break up. Because after seeing me every day, then I just disappear, maybe she will realize that I'm gone now and remember the good times and let go of the recent negatives and want me back.

After doing the No contact rule for 4 days after the breakup, I posted pictures of me going out with friends. She texted me the next morning after I posted the pictures wishing me and my family a happy Thanksgiving weekend. I decided not to text back because If I want this no contact to be effective, I can't break it. I have to do it for at least 30 days.

Should I have replied? Or am I doing it right by not texting her so she can start to miss me? Any advice on what I should do would be great! I'm listening! Please Help. Thanks!

My ex-girlfriend is going through a troubled time with her current boyfriend. Although they already are planning to get married, she is still not very sure about it; the reason being he wants to have kids with her as soon as possible, which is something she cannot go for right now. I bumped into her a couple of weeks back at a cafe, when I was in her city for a client-meeting. We talked like old friends about the good and the bad times we had been through since our breakup. While telling me about her current relationship, she gave me signs of preparing for a breakup. I told her to work it out and keep the breakup as a last resort. We hadn't talked to or texted each other since.

But suddenly, she called me up yesterday asking if I was free tomorrow and since I did not have any plans, she said she would be coming to my city. She told me that she wanted to go for a movie and eat out at her favorite restaurant here. Well, that's ok.

My confusion arose when she asked me to come pick her up or else she would come to my place all by herself. Why would she want to come over at my place?

I don't know if she has broken up already. She had told me that she would decide on this relationship by the end of September. I don't want to get back with her. Maybe she is giving a friendly visit. I don't know. I am getting pretty stressed out here. Please help me if you understand what does she want?

P. S: We used to enjoy each other's company in bed. We both were highly satisfied on that part, when we were together.