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My boyfriend and his first ex girlfriend dated 5 years ago
And they only dated for 3 months
She dumped him for another guy
They haven't spoken ever since

I've been with him for 2 years
I have met his family and some of his friends

So this is our conversation:
Him - hey so my coworker Adam invited us to his wife's party yesterday
Me - oh what? Why didn't u tell me?
Him - coz u had other plans
Me - i couldve cancelled
Him - nah. And plus i had other things to do
Me - what did u tell him?
Him - ah i just made an excuse to him
Me - oh okay.. i feel like you're embarrased of me
Him - what the heck? No
Me - yes because i haven't met him yet
Him - ok u want the truth why? Its because i know my ex girlfriend will be there. Him and her are good friends
Me - so ur embarrased of bringing me infront of her? Coz im ugly? Uglier?
Him - no ! there's probably going to be drama and im not gonna risk it
Me - what drama?
Him - look please drop it. I dont wanna talk about it please. Lets talk about something else. So what are we doing this weekend?

Im confused
Is he over his ex or?
And why drama?

Him and his first ex girlfriend dated 5 years ago
And they only dated 3 months
She dumped him for another guy
They haven't spoken ever since

I've been with him for 2 years
I have met his family and some of his friends

So this is our conversation:
Him - hey so my coworker Adam invited us to his wife's party yesterday
Me - oh what? Why didn't u tell me?
Him - coz u had other plans
Me - i couldve cancelled
Him - nah. And plus i had other things to do
Me - what did u tell him?
Him - ah i just made an excuse to him
Me - oh okay.. i feel like you're embarrased of me
Him - what the heck? No
Me - yes because i haven't met him yet
Him - ok u want the truth why? Its because i know my ex girlfriend will be there. Him and her are good friends
Me - so ur embarrased of bringing me infront of her? Coz im ugly? Uglier?
Him - no ! there's probably going to be drama and im not gonna risk it
Me - what drama?
Him - look please drop it. I dont wanna talk about it please. Lets talk about something else. So what are we doing this weekend?

It’s acrually a quite funny story.

We we had a course together my last semester of uni. We were in a class of about 30 people, some
of them I was close with and did things out of class as well, others I hardly knew. He was definitely not one of those I was close with, but we often sat close in class and chatted every now and than because that’s what civilized people do with classmates who sit next to them.

Once i I met him at the library, he was with a girl he introduced to me as his girlfriend. He added me (and other classmates) on fb before the end of the semester. He had a weird profile, no photos of him, a fake name.

After uni I moved to a different city. About six months after the end of classes one night he writes to me to ask what I’m doing and stuff. He kept writing to me like ininterruptedly, every evening, for about a week. He kept re launching the conversation, which was dead after the first night because we didn’t know each other and hadn’t much to talk about, with super boring stuff, like once he restarted it asking if I preferred wine or beer... at that moment I was seeing a guy, who was also an ex classmate of ours, we hadn’t publicized it but sometimes we tagged each other on stuff. One night the weirdo started insulting him, saying “do you remember xy, he was so stupid, never knew the answers to anything... etc etc. He also seemed to know a lot of stuff about me which I had never told him so I fear he had been stalking a lot.

I always answered politely but after a week I was annoyed and also had stuff to do so as he wrote to me for the billionth time, I didn’t answer. 24 hours later he writes me a message saying “so sad, people are all the same”. Than blocked my profile. 😂

Any ideas why he did this stuff? He was even an intelligent guy, it was a while ago but it’s still something I wonder about.