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I met this guy back in December but we were both drunk and ended up sleeping together but neither of us could remember much. The following morning we had a long chat in bed and we liked each other and he suggested to start all over again and pretend nothing happened and go on a proper date. Second date was perfect until we got drunk again and went to his place, had sex but wasn't great. We texted each other for a day but he stopped answering. I texted him again a few days later just to check but no reply so I decided to leave him alone. Back from Christmas holidays in January I saw him a couple of times around campus but we ignored each other. Later in February someone pokes me in the library and it's him. He apologises and tells me that he was still trying to get over his ex but now everything is fine and ask me for a start over coffe. I say yes why not and wait for him to contact me in the following days but he doesn't. Then he contacts me because I was looking for tickets for an event and he tried selling them to me. I decline because he disappeared and he says he was just very busy. A week later or so he texts me again and asks if I want to go to his place for a movie but I think that's just a booty call and decline, later he finds me still awake and says "I honestly just want someone to spoon and talk shit with" which made me think he only wanted sex. Few days later he contacts me again and ask me if I want to go for a countryside walk instead so I thought maybe he's interested in more than sex but it was late so we end up going to a bar instead and drink a beer but we talk about a lot of stuff, our interests, music, politics, travelling he's fun and we have a good time. We go to his place and he cooks dinner but then we end up having sex again but this time it was good. It's playful and while joking I tell him he's just an asshole but he says he isn't. I wait for him to text me the next day and he does but today he hasn't texted me yet and I don't know if I should.

My partner is really bad at home chores. I do about 95% of the cleaning on top of cooking. I basically get home from work and I have to do dishes. After dinner, I do the dishes again. He really does nothing! I had a talk with him and agrees that it's not fair to me. I told him to do the dishes lastnight and he procrastinated! He told me that he'll do it before bed. However, he was too tired and didn't do it and went straight to bed. He also failed to throw out garage for days. Should I also stop doing his laundry? I don't he even appreciates it and he just got used to me doing everything over the years.

The thing with me is, if i see it's there. I want to clear it out and I hate to see dirty dishes laying around. When I see garbage laying around, I threw them out.

Should I just leave it for him to do it?

I was talking to this guy who happens to be my ex boyfriends friend. We've been talking here and there because he's in the military and I understand being busy I've been there before. One night he invited me over to watch a movie with him and at first we were distant cause I was starting to like him a bit but I didn't want to jump to any conclusion like sleeping with him. Well he wanted me to move a bit closer and he put his arm over me and I felt very confident that he was into me. Towards the end of the movie he removes his arm and I thought maybe his arm was getting tired. So after we hugged and I left to go home. After that night he hasn't responded at all like maybe once in a blue moon but now he doesn't at all and yet I have him on snapchat and he looks at my pictures. So in conclusion I would like to know if he was trying to get into bed with him, was I being too much by sending him messages wondering how has he been doing, he wasn't ready, or he wasn't interested in me at all.

Just an update: my ex and I are talking but in no way we are getting back together. He's at the bar and the guy I'm interested in is there. I told him hi through my ex and I got nothing. What does this mean truly?