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I have been in a relationship for 4 years. I truly love my boyfriend. We have been together through difficult times. I was there when he was basically homeless/jobless and facing a massive decision to leave the city. We long distanced for one year before I moved to his city. I was recently hospitalised and diagnosed with an a chronic illness. He’s supported me through this always.

The problem is we seem to be facing one issue after another. We argue a lot over communication. It’s not all misery - when it’s good it’s good & we spend amazing times together such as travelling it’s just that when it’s bad it’s bad.
About a month back I posted about a difficult situation where I became pregnant and we ended up choosing abortion & he hardly said or did anything to support me claiming he was confused. He walked out slammed the door in my face when I tried to ask him to talk to me about what he was feeling and didn’t come with me to the appointment for the abortion but following advice & some thinking I decided to work through it with him.

However, yet again there’s another issue that I’m having to face with him. His reckless past has come forward and is now affecting me. We need to move apartments but can’t because he has court judgements against his name. I appreciate he was young when this happened and he can’t turn back time but what has irritated me is he has the money but hasn’t paid the debt. I confronted him & he said he can’t pay it because we need the money to move (but we can’t move as hardly anywhere will accept us easily because of his credit issue). To top it off 3 weeks ago he bought a motorbike which is money that could have been used to resolve his issue and save us a lot of hassle.
It has put such a strain on me. I have already been dealing with a lot and suffer with stress and this is only causing more problems as he always depends on me to sort and resolve things.

Are continuous issues a sign it’s time to leave?

So every relationship have arguments
I have arguments with my boyfriend sometimes
And I tell my best friends and ask for their advice
I have 2 best friends:
- best friend #1 - had long term relationships and still tgether with her current boyfriend for 3 years
- best friend #2 - never had a boyfriend before and would casually sleep around with guys

Should I take my best friend #2's advice on relationship problems?
Which ones' advice should I consider more?

So every relationship have arguments
I have arguments with my boyfriend sometimes
And I tell my best friends and ask for their advice
I have 2 best friends:
- best friend #1 - had long term relationships and still tgether with her current boyfriend for 3 years
- best friend #2 - never had a boyfriend before and would casually sleep around with guys

Should I take my best friend #2's advice on relationship problems?