Search Results: scaring a guy off

Girls, She broke up with me on new years day, now she wants me to take her back. Should I give her another chance?

Some back story; I met her around two years ago at work. We clicked, and instantly fell for each other. At first things were bumpy though. When we met, she was already in a long term relationship. She had a man living...

Misterwolf

Xper 3 Age: 31

Is she lying or is she telling me the true?

Long story short, I’m know for being a big flirt so girls don’t trust me right of the bat. so this specifically girl didn’t trust me when I met her, but then she started to trust me as time passed by and started to give...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I always attract emotionally damaged women?

It ends up the same result everytime. Somehow I manage to get them on a date only to probably be the best guy they've ever had only for them to get scared and bail. Or I'll find a girl who hides the fact that she's been...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Why am I not asked out when I'm not ugly?

I'm like a 6-7/10, but I've never been approached by a guy. Does my personality scare them off? I'm introverted and not sociable so maybe sometimes people assume I am arrogant? I am also independent and very...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I make it clear to him that I’m not interested even though we aren’t in a relationship?

Basically this guy and I were talking for 3 . months. Nothing really serious, at first I really did like him & confide in him. He was really supportive and I liked that about him. I sorta had a issue with him...

561Aloha

Xper 5 Age: 29

Is he just replying back to be nice?

So I’m talking to a guy, we have mutuals so we see each other from time to time but we’ve never spoke in person. he’s impossible to read. I know he was attracted me. But when we talked even from the beginning he’s...

overthinkerobviously

Xper 3 Age: 31

Family & Friends

Is this normal and I’m just crazy?

My boyfriend and I have his kids on the weekend We stay 2 hrs from their moms house and we pick them up and drop them off because “she’s to scared to drive on the highway “ We usually take them home around 6pm Sunday...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, how would you feel if a guy you knew and considered handsome said about you, "One day she'll be my wife"?

I've known this girl for a couple of years who's the daughter of some of our family friends. She's younger than me and just now has hit 20. She has really come into her own. She's 5'10" and was a bit awkward when she was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I tried to scare a guy off. Did I do it in poor taste?

I have never asked a guy to pay my bills before. My first boyfriend offered from time to time to help me out and I never accepted. I wanted to get everything on my own and I did. I struggle from time to time but I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is she so obsessive?

I live with a close friend and lately she’s been kind of nosy. I just started dating this new guy and I’m head over heels. He feels the same way. Let me just say I’m an open book. She barely asked to hangout before me and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

This guy is acting weird. Help?

Sooo I’ve been talking to this guy on and off for 6 months. We decided to be just friends for a while and reevaluate later on after he gets his shit together. He said he’s just not ready for a relationship right now with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does it worth it trying again?

I met him from an online dating app. He was one of the most sensitive, sweet and caring guys I've met on those sites. We hit it off right away but live in different countries and knew that we only had 24hrs to spend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you ask out a shy guy?

I'm trying to work up the nerve to tell my crush I like him and ask him out, but he's super shy and never went out with anyone so I don't want to scare him off. what is the best way to talk to him about this? How should I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, if you use a pet name out of nowhere, does it mean you’re interested?

This guy seemed interested in me, but we barely got to talk due to working in different departments/only seeing one another during *not before or after* shifts occasionally (and me being an IDIOT when it came to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I ghosted a friends with benefits for personal reasons, is it weird to hit him up?

Me and this guy are complicated. He ghosted me first for two weeks, but I kinda suspect because he caught feels, there's a massive vibe between us. We then texted again for a couple weeks where he kept asking me to come...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Super eager guys scare me off and super quiet (mixed signals) men intrigue me. what do I do?

So I love, love. Like i love affection, attention, flirting, cheesy stuff. Basically my problem is that I’ve had things happen to me that have given me ptsd. So straightforward eager men scare me honestly. I feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would a guy really do the most just to play you? Help me?

This is the first time I think I’ve ever been played or at least I don't know what is going on. Two months ago I started talking to one of my friends and we ended up sleeping together which ended up being a routine...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I make the guy im seeing more comfortable with me after he was abused in his previous relationship?

Hiiii, For three years me this guy have been flirting on and off, and now we're officially exclusive and I noticed something was off with the way he acted around me for the first time, I could tell by his body language...

Anonymous

(18-24)