Search Results: what can push a guy away

I’m just so done?

I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We have wonderful kids and one on the way. Lately I have been feeling like he just isn’t there for me. That I’m being pushed aside and he’s just been very selfish. I talk to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, I still love my ex and I want to be with him but I’m not sure how to go about it?

My ex and I started dating in August 2017. During the time we were together I was incredibly in love with him and it made me stupid and sensitive. I was overly defensive and often I would tell him to leave me alone or I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why does he keep hitting on me even though I keep rejecting him?

We have mutual friends. I personally don’t like him but I can still be civil because we have a lot of the same friends. I don’t like him because the first day we met, I talked to him trying to be friendly and he took that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think you can ever start fresh with someone in a relationship?

Say if two people really liked each other but were too stupid and immature to admit it and ended up hurting each other maybe someone got a bit more hurt than the other, they both said and did things they didn't mean and...

Alice2398

Guru Age: 28

So he got really angry with me?

So I’ve known this guy for about 6 years we’ve always had a very flirtatious way with each other and I would be the jealous one out of the two of us, we live far from each other so I kinda gave up on the idea of being...

Sara12356

Xper 4 Age: 32

Making jokes about having children?

So I’ve had this on and off situation with this guy for about 6/7 years now, I really like him but I tend to push him away because I just don’t think we can work or I’ll end up hurt because he is the type of guy who does...

Anonymous

(36-45)

So I’ve had this on and off situation with this guy for about 6/7 years now, I really like him but I tend to push him away because I just don’t think we can work or I’ll end up hurt

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Why joke about serious things?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to do in this situation? possible fear of intimacy: how to handle it?

So me and this guy used to have a thing. We started off as friends but he quickly let his attraction be known. Although we tried many times to have sex we did not succeed in doing so... we still spent lots of time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I pick myself up from this?

My girlfriend left me and I lost it. For a week I begged her and cried. It was bad. I told her how I am going through depression and need her. Pushed her away and she started seeing a male friend (she was most likely...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Should I do this?

So me and this guy talked for about 1.5 two months, I became attached to him. He told me he wasn't ready to be in a relationship after he expressed his feelings for me, and I overreacted. his daughter is half black and so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why will no guy I ever date be good enough for my mum?

I am 23 years old and I still live at home with my parents. I have grown up with a very controlling and overbearing mother What really upsets me is that no man I ever date will be good enough for my mum. If I really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you deal with defensive men or women?

In a way I know that serious people are cool. But if a man is too serious I will not want to be around him. Even a good looking guy with money or popularity will drive me away if he behaves like an outsider looking in at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I deal with this mess?

Where do I start. So I’ve known this guy for a while now, we’re best friends. He’s dating now, he’s a college kid dating a freshman. I’m currently a senior while he’s a freshman in college. We’ve always been there to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he always cry to me but ended up leaving me?

The guy I was with used to stop talking to me for days or even weeks and then when I saw him he would tell me what was going on in his life. I would fuss about feeling unloved and feeling played and then he would get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

So I’m a Feminist... Sue Me 😏

Before you start breaking your thumbs to angrily type some essay about how much you hate feminism and women such as myself, let me at least get a fair chance to piss you off first!!! Cmon, here me out 😃 “Equality” Man or...

Ellie-V

Guru Age: 31

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Was my ex emotionally abusive?

I was dating this guy for a year, and I really really loved him. Like no other person has been like that for me. But as the months went on the way he was treating me was becoming worse and worse. I really couldn't see the...

ScorpioShawty

Xper 4 Age: 24

Could she be afraid to further our relationship?

Background info: Pretty much we've known each other for years (she dated my former best friend, and now they're BFs), we share a ton of mutual friends, I liked her a long time (only a few words here and there), then we...

Kaihegon95

Xper 4 Age: 30

Other

How to tell him I really like him? Advice?

Ugh! I really like him but I don't know whats wrong with us. he's super sweet and if you saw us together you would think we are already dating by the way we get close and personso with each other. We work together but we...

Anonymous

(30-35)