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My crush and I message all day long. All summer he's been complaining about how his relationship with his gf is boring, he's bored with her and feels "unsettled". She feels the same he said but instead of just breaking up, they're going to let it die. I'm also in a relationship that has lost its spark.

Meanwhile everyday our convos get more intimate and he tells me he is looking for something diff and is missing curiosity and excitement. I said the same.

He tells me about dreams he's had where he was naked, talked about his underwear preferences, described his bed and room to me, asked me if I was into everything from period sex to bondage and threesomes and has told me that he has lots of condoms. He also made sure I knew that he and gf did not have sex on a recent vacation and once I told him I was sweaty from working out and he said "yum".

It seems like he's trying to look available to me, at least sexually, but I'm still not 100% sure he isn't joking around. I would die if I actually suggested hooking up and then he says lol or jk or something =stupid. I'm only afraid of this bc he has this pattern of asking me something wild and then pretending to not want to know the answer! So annoying!

I got brave last night and told him that I knew what I wanted.
Then he teased me a bunch and said "you know you want it", so I said yes I do. We verbally spar a lot and he was pretending to be mad at me and I said I like it when he yells at me. I meant the play fighting, us calling each other out on stuff, him calling me "gurl" and "woman" and trying to act like an alpha male. HE put the two things I said together and said, "ohhhhhhh, THAT'S what you want! bondage? you like it when I yell at you?"

I was so shocked that that's where his mind went ( we talk about everything but that was taking it up a few notches) so I just said I would answer any/all q's he had and he said NOOOO. WHY does HE bring up/ask ME stuff and then act scandalized?